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asked her if she wants to get shit to next level
=> WTF?
Don't ask such thing, only act.
If she doensn't want it she will tell you.
If you create an SPAM and you start asking stuff like that you totally destroy it.
Wise words. Escalate incrementaly, if you encounter resistence then two steps forward one step back. By saying "get shit to the next level" you activated her ASD, girls want to be romanced and swept off their feet so they can say to themselves "it just happened" Phrasing it like that she probably felt like a prostitute that you were negotiating with for some extra perverse activity for your birthday celebration.