You’ve finally sparked her interest and want to ask her out. Asking a girl out is a lot easier than you think. The hard part is done! You’ve approached and attracted her. Now you have to pull the trigger. If you want to ask a girl out, there a few situations you may find yourself in. Let’s go over them.

When you’re at a bar
When you’re at a bar and you want to ask a girl out, you have to wait for the signals. Something you can do throughout the conversation is toss out ideas about things you can both do together. Usually, this becomes obvious when you connect on a similar interest. For example:

Her: A couple times a month I go hiking
You: No way, I love hiking! We have to go some time! I know a bunch of great trails. But, I just hope you can keep up (smile).

Here, you’re planting the idea of hanging out together. Boom. There’s your date. You may also want to add in a teasing comment at the end to show you how you can continue to sprinkle in flirts with her throughout your interaction. At the end of your conversation, get her number by saying this:

You: It was really cool meeting you. We’re going on a hiking date together and it’s gonna be awesome. What’s the best way to contact you?

At this point you’re already assuming that you two have made a connection. Remember, this isn’t cocky, rather, it’s confident. At the end, you ask the best way to get in contact with her. That’s one way to ask a girl out. Most likely, she going to give you her phone number, but it’s a gentler way of saying, “I want to call you.” Also, notice the keyword in there “DATE.” That word will keep you out of the friend zone. Always mention the word “date” so she knows exactly what you’re in it for. There should be no confusion.

During the day
Say you want to ask a girl out on the street, at a coffee shop, or in the grocery store. There are two ways to go about this. First, if you are talking to her for less than 10 minutes, say this:

You:“You seem really cool. We should hang out some time. Let me get your number”
Yes, it’s that simple. If you want to ask a girl out, just say those words. You’re letting her know you’re interested and you want to get together. Since you’ve been flirting with her the entire time, she will know why you’re asking her on a date. If it’s quicker than 10 minutes, it’s okay to say:

You: “You seem really cool. We should hang out some time. What’s the best way to get in contact with each other?”

Since you’re working under a smaller time frame it relieves the pressure and gives her an option to give you her e-mail or Facebook information. Don’t push too hard for the number and take what you can get. After a few e-mail or Facebook messages, get her phone number and then ask her out.

Second, if you’re talking to her more than 10 minutes and want to ask her out, then go for the instant-date. Before attempting to grab her digits, see if she wants to continue the conversation over some coffee. There you can talk and see if you have a solid connection.

You:“You seem really cool. Let’s grab some coffee and keep chattin’. But I only have 15 minutes and then I have to be on my way.

Here you’re asking her on an instant-date casually, which keeps things low pressure and then letting her know you won’t take up much of her time. A lot of women might say no to an instant-date because they have places to be. If you let her know from the beginning it won’t be long, she might be more inclined to take you up on the offer. When the date starts, just keep it going until one of you actually has to go.

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