Hi so I'm pretty sure I've managed to get myself into an impossible situation but just wondering if any of you would be able to recover from this:

Day 1

Met a definite HB9/10 when at a bar in a town a couple of hours drive from where I live got a kiss+number close.

Day 2

Once I was home she texted me saying I must come meet her soon and as I happened to be staying with a mate of mine fairly near her in 10 days time I said I'd meet her in a nearby city on on my way back.

Day 3- 10

Made the mistake of talking to her a little too much on the phone when sorting when we were meeting and spent maybe half an hour talking to her.

Day 10

She texts my the day before we're supposed to meet saying she has been offered a last minute job for the following day which she can't really turn down and is really sorry and hopes i don't hate her. I reply saying that's a shame as i'm not sure if or when we'll be able to meet up again.

Day 11

Nervous I've scared her off i talk to her on fb to try and convey that i don't hate her and tell her she should call me later that night. She says she will but does not.

Day 13-Day 30 (today)

Been on holiday. No missed calls/messages when i get back.




Any advice on how any of you would recover from this/re-engage as very new to the PUA scene and looking to learn

Why has no one given me any advice

I suggest giving her one last chance to explain herself.Maybe you could casually text/call her like nothing happened and see her reaction.