Talking and having things to say will only get you this far. The rest depends on your attitude towards yourself, your date and the moment..
Talk. Think of things to talk, almost anything is good (except Ex Gf's, ex Bf's, and naggin about stuff, thats a no no I'd say). Be talkative. Get your canned material, stack it, work it. Develop more threads.. Ask her things, let her ask you things. MAKE HER Interested in talking to you. There's no "A man must do all the talking".. You must talk and let her talk... Don't go thinking that It's up to you to do all the talking.
Tease her. Dont be afraid to cross boundaries or limits.
Be playful. Show her you can laugh and make her laugh.
Be secure. Walk, talk, look and dress like a man that has self confidence.
Build attraction. When possible, let her know that you're THE MAN
Be The man: Polite gestures like oppening up car/restaurant door, pulling up chair for her, etc... Those things are not LAME, and they say a lot about a man's education. (in my opinion)
Have a confident touch, Kino. Do not be afraid to touch, arms, hands, leg (don't go too far up if you're not sure about her being ok with it). Show her you are comfortable touching women. Hugh her if possible and make her hugh you back.
Be light hearted. Don't get upset for stuff she says or makes, and dont spend the date nagging about what you don't like. No one likes a person that's complaining about life all the time. Instead look at things with humor; with grace. Behave like some one that's easy going
Watch your timing. Sometimes it's a good moment to talk, some other times a hugh is best. Learn to read the signs, the moments, If you feel she's cold, hugh, If you feel she wants to learn something from you, talk, If you think she's being cold, laugh, If you feel she's ready for a kiss. GO !! Do not hessitate if you have read IOIs and feel the time is right.
Do not put the burden of choosing on her back. Do not make the mistake of saying: If you want, If you can, IF you like it, Your time, Your agenda, Your decision. Women like men that can decide simple things so Its ok if you ask her, but do not depend on her decisions to decide where to go or what to do. Be strong and confident that your decisions are good for both. She's likely to feel more secure.
Keep your frame. Do you want to kiss her and fuck her? Ok go for it, seduce her if you want, try not to come off as too friendly or you'll get F zoned, but dont be too pushy. Sometimes its easy for her to befriend you and sometimes is easy for a man to fall in that role... Do not. Watch your frame and keep it strong. Go for whatever you're looking for and do not take anything less than that.
Not having something to talk about is nothing next to not having a strong attitude!
Take it easy man. Relax. just be natural, talk, laugh, and make her laugh
Oh and try to hold eye contact
Good luck...
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