I met this cougar at the bar the other day and had a long discussion /kino /dance etc .It was a good night and she was sporting/fun.She told me she is a recruiter .So before leaving I took her email id .

I am not sure of next step here.Do I just send her a simple email? If no can some one point me to some material to use in this case?! I dont wanna come across as boring but I cannot straight up ask for a day 2.I dont even have something fun planned right now.You know what I mean? I need some filling stuff till I build up to that time where I will ask her for Day 2.

Please give me some ideas/routines!
Thanks!!

I would never accept emails. This is how I ask a woman her number.

Introduce -> Make conversation -> Find a connection -> Make sure she admits to liking adventures and trying new things. Play your cards right and nobody ever says they hate adventures. -> Make a future plan A and B tell her your doing this and that( I'm going somewhere. DHV) -> ask her if she wants to join casually -> usually they'll say yes. -> just give her your phone and ask for her number.

This has never failed for me. because i've already made a connection and comfort bf i've asked.

Sometimes they offer me emails, and I'd say something like. What do you want me to do with your email? Who checks emails? And then I would just give her my phone to input her number. Then I would immediately call her to confirm the number.

If she saves the number immediately, that's a major IOI for Day2.

What'd you do to set this connection up?
And is it a good idea to try and kiss a girl while you met her for the first time?

More than Good Idea, its a must!.. Haha.. Well, it depends. If you've built enough attraction and there is sexual tension in the air, and the moment is good.. GO! Do not think ahead of yourself if there are going to be consecuences for that kiss..

If you read her IOI's right and you feel the moment, go.

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Setting a connection isn't too difficult. You must find something you have in common with her without her knowing your trying too hard. Basically it's DHV on something that she holds important.

I'm not sure if this is the right way, but this has worked for me so far. If she's into sports, make her know that you're more knowedgable than her. Whatever she's into make her know that you know more than her on the back of her head indirectly.

You can kiss her again depending on the IOI's. If you feel that she likes you, build up enough KINO, isolate, look at her eyes and stare for a sec, then her lips and stare and back to her eyes and go for it.