I am going to share a short field report but I would also like to ask a question about continuing this encounter. If there is a better place to ask this please let me know.

FR:

So it was my last night in Vegas. Had bottle service at one of the popular clubs in Vegas. After a few disappointments from girls (some only told me they had a boyfriend much later on, some found out I was much younger than them -- a 27 year old... right as we were about to share a taxi!).

I call it a night and start making the long, drunken walk back to the hotel.

I decide to call up one of the girls who I only had a shorter encounter with (one that I don't really remember). I managed to get her number/text her before leaving that night.

So I call her and we talk about what each other are doing, etc.. But then she hangs up, at this point I'm at my hotel. And I start to call it a night after texting her "did you hang up, or was it me?"

She tells me that her phone ran out of batteries and that she was charging it. She then tells me that she's married. I'm shocked, I ask her why she's calling me then (it was ~5:30am at the time). She says she's in an open relationship with her husband and that it's cool. After joking around with her over the phone, we make plans to meet in the middle between our two hotels.

Once we meet up, she asks if I want to go to her hotel. We do. She was amazing.

I got up, said, "I guess you'll never see me again."

On the ride back home from Vegas, I texted her asking her her age. "Early 30s".

I was shocked again. She even wore her wedding ring while we were together.

My question: The last thing she texted me that she had a lot of fun. I know she's married. I know she's a lot older than I am. But does that have to be the absolute last time we ever see each other?

If the consensus is that I should try to initiate something with her again, then what would be the best way to try to find out if it's possible?

Some of my thoughts:
Text her: "It was great meeting you." ... "Will I ever see you again?"

-or-

"Do you go to Vegas often?"

Thanks guys!

There's a lot of tips on how to text a girl, rule #1 is NEVER ask questions. Both of your texts sound needy and uninteresting.

Ok well I was hoping for some ppossible suggestions.

Maybe I should say, "I know we're probably never going to see each other again, but if you're ever near the bay area, don't be a stranger."

u need to read some text game info. your text again here does nothing to draw out her emotions. the key to texting is to remind her of the great time u2 had and all the great EMOTIONS she felt. So text her about a memory she had with you that went really well and where she was feeling a lot of emotional connection to you. This past weekend I went skinny dipping with a 28 yr old (i just turned 23) and the next day I texted her "im heading to the beach ina bit... should b some awesome waves again today ". WE payed in the waves naked together that previous night... lots of making out... ect. This is her response to my text "Nothing nearly as amazing as last night im sure but im so down! ; ) my friend is really mean in the morning until she eats so im going to hurry her along hahah".

As you see she was super excited to hang out again... and even if she said should couldnt make it it wouldnt have been a big deal. Why? bc i was going anyways... with friends... so w/e. Its her loss... never yours.

Hope that helps
GL
Duke