Long story short.

met a bird in town - pushed for a kiss, she said if your lucky. cant remember what i said, but i remember it being witty. built a bit of rapport then took her number. texted back and fourth but somehow things dried up and we stopped texting.

little background info - shes 19 im 28, shes gotta baby and so do i. she lives 20 mins away from me and with her mum and her sister. By the sound of things she seems busy most of the time.

after the first round of texts i stopped texting. there really wasnt much investment on my part. ran into her at a show. where she was a promo girl. i was pretty drunk and im sure she was sober.but started a conversation. told her that i dont have her number anymore (LIE, because i dint wanna look like every other desperate looser that begs her for it) and told her ill see her around then left. she may have seen my phone and was probably wandering why i didnt want it anymore.


two weeks after that i get txt from her saying "Omg ** me **her**. i just found ur number!! haha so now you have mine again hope all is well".

there were long breaks- sometimes hourly between us txting back and fourth. i was extremely busy. so after that the convo went like this :

Me - *** howzit! did plimmerton wreck u?

Her - hey haha noo! im strong how r u?

ME - Like hulk strong or two wines and ill take the whole party on strong? i been ok xcept its freezin n there's a big hole in my front door window after the wknd. long story. ill tell you if your lucky enough hows ya lil monsta? he behavin betta than mummy i bet?

Her - Like two wines and im taking on the whole place strong hahah. ooh no! He's goods snoring away wat about ur boy? hahaha no! he's worse than me lol

it was 12.41. i left it there and hit the hay


next day

Me- yeah adrians good, just had a phone convo with him where he invited me to wipe his but after potty. great...i was wandering when that call may come.... Quick q, u a wine or a cocktail sorta girl?

HER : sorry just got home from work. Aw thats always cute isnt it lol bloody kids. im a bubbles girl hahah.

ME: Dam! Do u always wrk this Late? if your a Bubbles girl i may have a surprise 4u

ME: hey ** hername!** hope your day is going well so ima keep my word n take u out 4a drink. does 2mrw arvo suit or shud we doo Friday?

Her: Hey ** sorry i didnt reply yesterday, had a busy day i'm working till 8 tonight but i will be free either tomorow night or saturday just not sure wat one yet,

ME: hehe betta late than neva [;)] im tied up till 9 unless u wanna do somethn afta that, sat i got a byo but ill be in town. will u be headin into town sat?

No reply.

i was thinkin bout givin her a bell and tryin to get her out but dont wanna get flaked again because this one will be the 3rd time. should i go ahead or cut this one off?

I'd say you got her interested again.

Go for it! But keep your own frame! If you like her dont make the mistake I made: Forget my own frame.

Build as much attraction as you can, Kino a lot and do not hesitate if kissing oportunity shows up! (advice I got recently)

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".. I will learn all that I've forgotten, I will succeed where I'd previously failed, and even if I don't I wont stop, cuz this is not just about girls, this is about Life "

well it's been two weeks since i've frozen her out after not getting a reply. did i just leave things till too late? the other thing im worried about is that she appears to be busy being a mum and with work. and the fact she lives 20 mins away doesnt help. and the possibility of getting flaked again keeps me away from going for it. despite being a mum, she seems a tad immature and is a pretty extreme case. esp after sing some comments shes posted about her ex's. with girls like this is it better to arrage a meeting when shes out clubbing or just arrange a date? im gettin the feeling shes one of them birds that you just bang out and let go. what's the best way to approach this scenario given my situation?

come on guys. help me out here. im getting a severe case of oneitis here because of this situation.And i havent even had her yet! how do i proceed from here? any chance a three week freezout could wok?