what my main fear at the moment is, is that im in and everythings going great, and then i get to the closer and she suddenly says something like "i have a boyfriend".... what do i do at that point? eject? how?

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Here's an Extract of Mystery Method on Girls Saying They've got BF's.

(Hope I'm not violating Copyright)

""Though she doesn't have a boyfriend) she's not attracted to you
or you miscalibrated your escalation.
2. She does have a boyfriend and) given her current options, she
has chosen to stick with that relationship.
3. She does have a boyfriend and is willing to sleep with you but
wants to make sure that you understand her situation first. She
wants discretion and understanding. And though she might be
available to you for sex, she's not immediately available for any
more of a commitment,
4. She does have a boyfriend and she is willing to cheat on him
(they often are if your game is tight), but she doesn't want to feel
guilty about it. This is her rationalization process at work. As
long as she mentions the boyfriend before sleeping with you, she
can rationalize to herself that it was your fault. Sure, she might
regret it later, but that won't necessarily stop her from cheating.
5. She doesn't have a boyfriend and she is attracted to you; she
just doesn't want to look like a loser who can't get a man, Most
hot women have orbiters anyway: nice guys who pose as their
friends but secretly want to sleep with them. Since the word
"boyfriend" can have so many different meanings, she is thinking
of one of her orbiters as a "place keeper."""

Mystery Method Pg. 36. Copyright © 2007 by Mystery Method Corporation.

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If she does have a BF doesn't mean she is not willing to cheat on him. Sometimes she's just expecting you to prove yourself worthy.

I wouldn't say eject yet. In case she stops your kino or your k close attempts then, yeah, it might be a good time to re-consider leaving the set, but the BF line alone should not be a reason for it.

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This is a shit test "I have a boyfriend" as opposed to an autopilot one. She's probably testing your frame. An autopilot one you can just ignore but with a shit test one just Say "haha ok" and flow into your next method.

The presupposition being: She thought that you were picking her up. You're suprised to find this out as you were only screening her. She loses value in the frame and acts in a way to create attraction in you so that she doesn't feel silly and recovers value in the interaction, then back rationalises it to herself. The "boyfriend" is never heard of again.