Ok sorry if this is long but I need help and I don't want to leave anything out

Met a girl at the gym 2 years ago. We played it all rt I think. Problem
Was I was married. kept it cool and her on the hook while
I tried to figure out what I was gonna do in my situation. A year later made a move she accepted and started a "thing" she had a boyfriend at the time. Things got intense we really are a perfect match in regards to everything. We txt all day talk
All day have all the same interests same hobbies. I was ready to leave and my wife got preg (took firtility drugs behind my back). Instant trap. We talked me n gym
Chick. Worked things out she was still in. I said I was gonna leave then she says she's happy in her relationship. We stop talking for 3 months and she ended up getting married. The guy she was with only brought up marriage cuz his work
Visa expired. We recently started talking and hanging out again she always brings up how perfect we are together and how we are perfect for eachother. And how she has all the same problems with him. However since we started talking again (2 weeks ) she haven't messed around. She said the other day don't always be such a nice guy it won't get ya far. Today she kissed me
On the lips closed mouth I go in for more and she says please go and don't make
This any harder then it alread is. What n where am
I supposed to go. I really want to be with this girl. I know the situation is messed up and there's prob allot more I could write but I guess in the end it just comes down to I feel like I might not e thinking clearly or seeing things rationally cuz I love her. Just don't know how to close and get this chick. If she was happy she would talk
Txt and go out with me. Any help or ideas would be worth a try. Thanks
Guys!

Hmmm..i'm newer to the whole 'PUA' thing but if I was in ur situation i would fall back a lil bit. Game on other girls get ur mind off of that one. Because in my expierence if A girl says dont be so nice, i take it as i'm letting her get close to me. What I do is I let them think they are getting close to me without falling into my own game. Remember she's not the only girl out there. I'd try a 'walkaway' dont respond to her text messages quickly, dont be as nice juss enough to let her know ur still interested. But have her wanting you- and wonderin what ur thinking. Instead of you worrying about her.