| Hi Guys, stoaked to have finally joined the forum!
Read The Game 1 year ago followed by Mystery Method audio books. What a life changer! I told my best buds about it, they read the game and we went sarging.. with much success. Little did I know there's a freaking goldmine on this forum!
I have a side-question for some of you however. Before I got into The Game, I already achieved so much.. I had a 2 year LTR, then picked up a perfect 10 who worked as a receptionist at the busiest Internet Cafe in NZ. To top that off, not sure if I could call it 'sex' but I did everything sex encompassed at the age of ( 5 - 11 ) but I hadn't reached puberty and therefore couldn't orgasm! This was with 3 different girls at that age range too.. not one of my proudest things, and, no doubt we were experimenting, but I do wonder if to some degree I have decent natural game.
Make no freakin bones about it, though! I had some massive AFC shit stuck in there too!!
But you wanna know the fucked up thing? As soon as I studied the game.. yeah my cold approach got waaay waaaay better, but I definitely no longer felt natural or had as much boosted confidence (or maybe some sort of distorted narcissistic view of myself, lol ) that I used too! I do love the new me though, it's a lot more empathetic and human.
Did any other naturals notice this when they got into the game? a downhill slope before the huge rise??? I'd be keen to know if that was the case!
So alas, onto my question. Flying back up to the capital big city where my family and some of my best mates are for the Uni Holidays for some relax and some intense sarging with a good mate of mine. He knows this is the intention so we have both been mentally prepared for this for weeks. I board the plane.
Imperial you must know that I have a phobia of flying, because I went through a thunderstorm in a plane two years ago flying into Sydney to visit my ex LTR gf which was a traumatic experience that has put me off flying for life. I can only fly now if I have a good 3 grams of lorazapam (strong anti-anxiety medication).
I'm cruising down to my column when I notice a freaking fine treasure of the south sitting in the window seat.. appreciate the moment and head my way down to my row. Bear in mind the pills have kicked in already so the brain is definitely not in it's fine form it sorta keeps you relaxed in the moment, with bad memory loss. The music on the mp3 sounds much better though, and oh.. It also makes you immensely drowsy.
The flights 1 hour 50min. And I'm counting down the minutes till I'm on land again. I woke up to:
"Excuse me Sir would you like a tea or coffee?".
While sipping my lethal black tea that I'm hoping will boost my alertness, I check how long I've been on the flight. 1 hour 30min. Sweet! 20 to go. Thinking to myself; 'Hey, wasn't there a stunner somewhere?' Propped myself up to have a look.. the planes empty there's hardly any people on the flight and look! she's only 3 rows up and by herself.
Psyched myself into it and up I went. Time was gold though I didn't have long. Things went great, as I went to sit down I asked why she was sitting alone.. did she smell or something? Holy shit she was a 9.5!
Disarmed, she was smiling, obvious she was enjoying the company. The DHV's couldn't have been easier to upload, I'd studied her native language 3 years ago at Uni. After she asked what I was studying, I got to know her, she was studying medicine. Smart too, I'm sold.
Boom there was at least the 7th IOI. I took control of her world and handled all communication for her between the flight attendants and herself. We were vibing really well and I can tell she was feeding off my confidence. I don't believe in mixing drinking/drugs with sarging.. but it was interesting doing my first pickup with zero anxiety thanks to the drugs. I now want to achieve that every time in natural state.
So as the plane landed I got her digits. We chatted briefly while waiting for the luggage. Dad was freakin impressed when I walked through the customs chatting to her, lol.
TXT game though.. a massive massive weakpoint of mine. When I picked up the perfect 10 in my natural AFC days god knows how I did it. I remember txting the girl for days and days all throughout the day and night just chatting and building comfort.
This is almost completely against everything I've seen and read by Mystery, Style and great members of these forums.
Here's how it went anyway. We flew in late Wednesday night. I txt her 3pm Thursday. I gave her a nickname on the plane that I addressed her by in the txt.
nickname xxxx, it's xxxx. End up staying in town(We'd discussed it on the plane). Enjoying big city life?
She txt back an hour later.
Hey. yap in staying at xxx, not too far away from town I guess. Yeah man enjoying shopping in xxxxx SPAM
I txt her an hour after that.
Awesome, today im pretty busy, tomorrow we'll go tenpin(I'd suggested this as a throw away statement on the plane) with my other friend and his girl friend, sweet?
And that's it, I didn't hear back from her.
I read and watched everything I could find on txt game on these forums. There are some awesome suggestions! I know now I should of txt her that Wed's night with something super-brief to establish a txt relationship.
I started to get into my head about how I didn't build enough comfort, I didn't do this or didn't do that.. I learned on the forums there's a huge array of possibilities as to why she didn't txt back.
I decided I have two options.
1. I let her go, delete her # and move on.. what a great first pickup on holiday and learning experience.
2. Respect her high value of not txting back. I didn't follow up with a chaser later that night. I remember PUA's always saying never txt a girl late at night or on a weekend and ask what they are doing, it convey's you don't have a busy enough social life and scheduel. Best time to txt is daytime through the week.
It turns out I had a really epic weekend. I went out with my mate and we went to a 8 girl 2 guy german leaving party and took the whole group to an awesome bar where my mate and I ran game and opened some amazing sets. Where I also had well known celeb in NZ(Guy who hosts NZ IDOL) come up to me infront of our group tap me on the shoulder and tell me he "Loves my vibe" and introduced me to his other celeb mate, to which I played it really well and it DHV'd me to the entire dancefloor.
Which leads me to my only other option to txt her Monday and tell her about what an awesome weekend I had (that she missed out on) and go for another date..
If she replies, do I need to build some more comfort via txt?? I know how I just thought it was pretty AFC.
I found this great piece in another TXT thread, that I considered using in my own rendition along side telling her about my weekend.
'Hey! I need to ask you something that has kept me sleepless and I want you to be totally honest with me. It might be awkward between us after this but I have to know how you feel. I have kept this in my mind for a while now but I think it's finally time I'll be straight up and just confront you.... I hope this doesn't ruin the relationship we already have. I just need to know and I don't see any other way I could get over this. It wouldn't be fair on me if I don't get an answer. I want you to tell me truthfully, no matter how harsh it is. I just want your honest opinion... Do you like coke or lemonade? '
I can relate that to a specific convo we had in person.
Appreciate all your comments!
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