hey guys, will abel here. i got this girls number last night at a bar and she told me to call her and she'd text me when she got home. instead i waited 45 min and said:

WA: it's will, whatre you doing later? (it was 1 AM)
HB: (no response, then in the morning...) I just saw this lol.I totally passed out last night.
WA: Haha now ive got you by the balls. What sort of trouble are you causing
HB: None yet, lol
WA: yawn. Idk who your bf is but he's not spanking you enough.
HB: I told u..i dont have a bf (I never asked, my friend did w/o my knowledge until after we left)
WA: Didnt ask. You wanted me more than biker beard guy (the guy she came out with that she said was "just a friend")
HB: (no response for an hr)
WA: btw im gonna connect the dots with your freckles
HB: (2 texts in a row) Lol. Guys always try to say that.
What's your last name so I can save your name in my phone
WA: I dont do fb. Too many stalkers online.
HB: I just want to save ur number
WA: Girls always start w that. Its Rider if you must know. (Its not, but now shes not gonna look me up on facebook to find out)
HB: omg ur silly (i let her sit on this one for an hr)
WA: And youre the type i have to watch out for
HB: Nah im not crazy
WA: I meant you crave attention
HB: And how could you know that about me? (I dont text back for 3 hrs, then...)
WA: The way you were giving me your best 'im sexy' look to get my attention
HB: Is that what I was doing? lol
WA: You tell me


No response for the rest of the day. I would love to know what I did right and where I could've improved. I want to DHV, create a deep connection (comfort) and escalate to a meeting and at least kiss close this weekend. At least if I'm out with her and it doesnt go anywhere, I can use her to DHV to other girls, making her want me more and winning all around.

generally ok but way too much cocky funny try hard shit going on.
notice how she doesnt respond to your 'you want me' line.

she seems pretty cool and normal.

less cockiness
more playful teases mixed with subtle compliments (i.e. sexual escalation)

remember your trying to seduce her not prove to her how confident and funny you are

I agree w Jaun. You are coming off like you are "trying hard to be an asshole". You can be witty... but let it come to you... from what she is saying in her texts. You are also the one in the texting chasing her... u have to get her to ask you more questions... and dont lie about your last name... that just makes u look super insecure and just flat out playing way 2 many games. Girls like games... but the right kind of games... not guessing what your last name is. That just makes you look like an amiture.

Here is an example of what im talking about. I have been gaming this girl for a few months... went on a day 1... went really well.. and wev been planning a day 2. I gave her the challenge of who ever can come up w the best date ideas for our next date doesnt have to pay for dinner. (she loved the idea... and this is a really fun and creative way to get a girl thinking about your next date)

She texted me first after we discussed the rules over the phone.

Her "Lol...Sooo.. Are these date ideas suppose to be ridicilous? Or serious? Cuz I can do both haha"

me "They can be either or both. Im expecting some amazing ideas lol"

Her "Lol...K..um...Lets drive to MO and get our nipples pieced..From there...We get on chatroulette and show everyone what we did. And you make tacos in the hotel."

Me" Excellent suggestion... but I was thinking we both get root canals.. carve a pumpkin, rent a paddle boat, corss the boarder illegally, and then sneak into a ritzy hotel and go skinny dipping in their pool."

Her " Lol omg ok you win haha"


Again her responses were excellent here. Very sexual... but not creepy sexual. The next day she hit me up saying "Im slacking on there great date ideas arnt I..."


So again... she and I had something to talk about..and SHE could initiate after I stopped texting her. Hope this helps.

GL

Duke

pretty much what the other two posters said, you over-gamed her, cocky funny, not cocky cocky cocky, at least not until you have a sufficient amount of compliance. Practice some better calibration

thanks guys. im having trouble cuz im not cocky at all internally and that hasnt done well for me so im overcompensating. i can get girls attracted but not keep it. any playful text ideas? this girl is above average but not great so idc if i just practice on her.