So I had a date today went rather good.

Anyways we went swimming and all of her sacred make up washed off. after we swam shes all "I know I look like shit." (But she didn't!!! Still looked gorgeous)

Here is what I'm asking. How do you respond to this? Do you go real smooth and say "yeah you look alright" or be honest "you look bad/good" or just go complete AFC "you look stunning/gorgeous."

Also I'm asking because it's summer and I plan on getting a lot of use with my pool/hot tub. So a good come back for when they say this would be helpful.

THANKS

BTW I replied by saying "you sure your make up isn't water proof?"

Was this a good response?

i would neg her: "yeah you kinda do".

but: say it with a big fucking smile..

If you already said it, how did she react?

Pay more attention to her and calibrate in the interaction accordingly haha.

From my point of view, it seems like a good response.

Saying you look alright seems too neutral to me. Not committed in your opinions. Unattractive imo. I personally I'd like to playfully dismiss her statement. I hate it when a girl or anyone think lowly of themselves. I want more people to feel GOOD about themselves, because that makes ME feel good about myself. Imagining myself in this situation I might have said something like "only when you make that scrunchy face". She'll probably say something like "what scrunchy face?"/"What?" Then I splash water at her face playfully. Then while she's blinded I dive, swim behind her, and grab her cheeks like a granny. "MAKE THE SCRUNCHY FACE I DARE YOU!"

Maybe I'm just fantasizing, but I figure it'd be best to divert the situation/question, and continue having fun.

Say whatever you think and want dude..stop programming each of your responses like a machine and learn how to socialize instead. You can respond whatever you want and have great "result" by saying she has a horrible face or that she looks gorgeous. There's no such thing as " is it AFC? " You can do the same thing an AFC does but get the girl without a problem, because the AFC does it from a place of neediness and not being authentic. You can literally pick up any chick with the most "AFC thing ever"...the actual content of the words you say doesn't matter at all. Girls are governed by emotions, not logic. It's her emotions that you need to pump up, not the logically word by word sentence that you want to tell her. This is why you hear in the community in guys who's really good that what you say doesn't really matter as long as your thoughts, words and actions are aligned and it comes from a place of having fun and being free of outcome. This is hard to internalize when you're new, but try more and more to strive towards this instead of memorizing things to say or beat yourself up over what you could've told her. Keep going and good luck!

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She's probably really neurotic when it comes to her looks, so I would tell her she looks better in sweat pants and no make up on

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I would say with a smirk, yea, you kinda do, and then I'd move in for a kiss, if she didn't comply, build more comfort and do it again a bit later.
repeat as many times as required lol

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