she totally freaks out before we meet up. Here's the conversation:

Me: Hey
Her: Hi
Me: Hey im in town for 2 days. Lets get some food, drink captain, then drink more captain. It would be nice to see your face
Her: Ok! Sounds good lol
Me: Cool! I will pick you up at 7. Whats your address?
Her: Oh my, ca i trust you to not drug and rape me? Or drug me and force me to buy an expensive painting / champagne? Im watching dateline investigates haha
Me: Trust me i wont do any of that
Her: Haha okay. IM just kinda worried. IM a worrier and i've never let a strange man i met online pick me up and take me places before lol
Me: Trust me, i will make u feel comfortable. We will have fun. Im happy to hear u dont normally do this. Tkae a chance, i willl show u respect and a good time.
Me: If there's anything i can do to make u feel more comfortable let me know. We could meet at a public location

This conversation all went on at 10 - 11pm of Friday night. After that last text she just stopped replying. How i met this girl was on facebook. We had a solid interaction then i've been texting her about once a week for the past 7 or 9 months. I mean it seems like she was unsure of what was going to happend and freaked out last minute. Thoughts? Do u think i should engage this girl in a text convo again or just say fuck it, i tried...?

what do you mean you're "happy to hear" she doesn't do this all the time? This is totally fucking normal in 2012

Somewhat along the lines of " i am happy that you are not an internet dating slut that sluts around on the internet 24/7"

Any thoughts?

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Hey man, you're not gonna like the way this sounds, but what you said after she asked if she can trust you sounded fucking creepy. Not trying to be mean as I've been in this situation too and have made that same mistake.

When she asks if she can trust you its kind of like a shit test to see how confident you are. If you answer saying "oh of course you can trust me" it makes you seem desperate and creepy in her eyes.

It would have been much better to play it off lightly and make a joke like " Well how can I trust you're not some old perverted man? lol" or "Oh I love that show, I actually planned our date off last week's episode". Basically anything that makes it seem like no big deal, because she was making a joke and then you took it seriously which raised red flags for her.

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thanks for that

after reading it again it does sound kinda creepy. I need to a cigarette X_X

No problem, happy to help.

If you talk to this girl anymore post it up here and I'll try to help you. There's also people here more experienced than me who also might chime in if you keep posting.

Yeah. Telling her how nice you are might seem like a good way to earn her trust. But if she's weird about meeting someone from online, you're not going to get through to her by rationally explaining to her that you're a good guy. After all, a creepy guy can put on the same act. She'll still have that feeling in the pit of her stomach.

Make her so attracted and intrigued that she hardly cares who you are. Having a sense of humor about it helps. "Hope you're not actually a dog pretending to be a girl on the internet." "Hey, I thought you were trying to drug and rape me!" "Well, I have to be honest with you. I'm actually 12." Get her laughing. Roll with it.

After you've teased her about it enough... if she still says "you're so hilarious... i'm excited to see you but still nervous", THEN you can ask HER what would make her feel more comfortable. Suggest meeting some place public instead of picking her up. But if she's not a flake and you've done your job making her excited, she won't care.

would it help if you suggest her to bring a frined?

If you have no interest in getting laid, then yeah, that would help a lot.