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So... I just came back from a graduation party and the HB I went on a date with shows up with a different dude. Apparently they've been dating for 3 hours. So basically I'm pretty damn pissed and depressed because the AFC that I was a year ago faced the exact same situation and I'd like to avoid the same mistake twice.

So I show up to this party and here's this dude holding her hand and talking about his life. This guy, he's one of the "popular" kids (I've known him all 4 years of high school). He's not an athlete but a break dancer and leaving the city in 2 months to go to college.

When I figured they were officially dating I decided to stay at the party for a couple minutes to see if they'd separate long enough so I could game her and escalate. No opportunities arose and they jumped in the pool so I just went home. (AFC move but I'm extremely angry)

What would the mPUAs do? (Aside from cut her and go)


Yes, I'll admit I have an extreme case of oneitis.

Aside from cutting her and moving on? Nothing.

Don't re-initiate contact with her, it's her loss. Act like you don't care at all, have fun with other women. This will help you in two ways.

First, it will help you get rid of your oneïtis. The only solution to oneïtis is to see more women and find out that you can easily find a girl that is as good as (or better) the one you are falling for.

Second, it will make the girl you have oneïtis for more attracted to you. When she sees you are totally cool about her hanging with some other dude (because you could give her a better time anyway) and that other women want you, she will re-initiate contact and SHE will be the one asking for another date.

How will she "see" though? She barely goes on facebook and her texts are extremely slow

She already saw your reaction, she nexted you and you left. If you go back to her she will know you are trying something. No matter what you say. Might as well stick with what you did, leaving. Meaning you aren't her friend, you are a suitor.

This sample from the "The Way of the Superior Man" by David Deida may help you out:

Choose a Woman Who Chooses You

If a man wants a woman who doesn't want him, he cannot win. His
neediness will undermine any possible relationship, and his woman will
never be able to trust him. A man must determine whether a woman
really wants him but is playing hard to get, or whether she really doesn't
want him. If she doesn't want him, he should immediately cease
pursuing her and deal with his pain by himself.



I definitely recommend reading this book, you will be able to understand and play accordingly to the female psyche.

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What makes an average looking guy instantly become “hot”?

Cool, I'll take a look at it.

Anyway, throughout the last couple hours of depression I set up 3 day 2s with 3 HBs. Might as well right? haha

Thanks for everything guys

Choose a Woman Who Chooses You

If a man wants a woman who doesn't want him, he cannot win. His
neediness will undermine any possible relationship, and his woman will
never be able to trust him. A man must determine whether a woman
really wants him but is playing hard to get, or whether she really doesn't
want him. If she doesn't want him, he should immediately cease
pursuing her and deal with his pain by himself.


###*** This is very very true. I know how u feel bro... its hard. A girl i had oneits w just started dating this D-bag a few weeks ago. While im cool w it (havnt talked 2 her in months) it still kinda sux knowing. I like everyone allrdy said... keep your head high... dont let it get 2 u... (even if it does) and try again.

Like Rocky said. Its not about how HARD YOU CAN HIT. Its about HOW HARD YOU CAN GET HIT AND KEEP MOVING FORWARD.

How much can you take and keep moving forward? That my friend... is how winning is done.

Best wishes.
Duke