so me and this girl made plans sunday to hang out last night for a 2nd date, she seemed into me, texting me lots,saying things like come keep me warm etc.. anyways she says shes off work around 7 or 8, so she would text me when shes ready...i dont hear from her til 9:15 and she says shes gonna eat dinner....she texts at 10:15 and says she had dinner, now shes gonna shower and she will call me in 40 mins, so i say we should just reschedule to another night since it was already 10:30 and by the time we got out it would be til like 11:15 ish, the reason i did this was because i was super tired, had a really long day and didnt feel like i could "impress" in my current state of mind.

so anyways i can tell shes a little disappointed, i say we should do it another night and she says shes busy til sunday and doesnt know when she has free time next etc etc, should i feel bad for flaking even though she took almost 3 hours since our original time to get her shit together? whats my play now? text her/call/wait til she contacts me?

dont feel bad. you should feel good actually that you placed yourself above her. most guys would not do that.

just go out with her on sunday

bro your fine... let her come to you and just play it cool. reschudle... she is still into u...