Hi guys,

I was on a "unofficial date" tonight (we both didn't tell it was a date but it felt pretty much like a date) with a girl I know since a few months (saw her at several parties, close friend of a friend).

I picked her up and we went to play pool, then just sat there drinking beer and talking and joking. I think she is interested. I left her home after it didn't get farther at all.

It was a fun night, but I feel like I missed something there. There is one problem, one thing preventing me from escalating and getting more serious ... she doesn't like people touching her.

I thought at first it was a joke, but when I saw my friends hugging her very slightly (girl friends), and when I saw her getting in bad mood after a friend touched her for any reason, nothing sexual, I understood it was real.

So I'm a little lost, I think she might like me, but how do I escalate??? I can't really touch her, I know whe hates that. But at the same time, I guess that when she's a relationship, her boyfriend and her have some physical contact sometimes, at least when they kiss or have sex.

So here's my question / request : do you have any idea how I could escalate without physical contact? Or at least test her, to make sure I can touch her safely or w/e? I'm pretty lost right now, to be honest!

Thanks!

Sam

Nothing?