I need your opinion on Day 2 venue. I don't have much time these days so I am trying to keep it short and make it later on in the day. I have three options:

A) Burlesque show? I have never been to one so I figured it might be something interesting plus its on Coney Island with a boardwalk, beach, restaurants etc. so lots of venue change options nearby. I am just worried she might get offended, though she can handle a joke pretty well.

B) County Fair_ Pretty standard type of first date but not much options for quick venue change.

C) Ice Skating_ Also pretty standard also not much options for quick venue change.

What do you guys think?

Thanks!
MHJ

Here's my opinion:

A. Awesome! If she feels offended, forget about her, she's uptight and pretentious...
B. Lame! As you said, "Pretty standard"
C. Intrigueing... Opportunity for kino, adrenaline rush...

I would definitely go with the burlesque show, it's hinting at sexuality and it's something different... Good luck!

I was thinking of just asking her if she okay with art that has a bit of a sexual theme but that seems very, lack of a better word, 'beta.' Plus I don't like to tell girls where I am taking them, it helps my game tremendously.

I never ask a girl if she's OK with what I have in mind... I just tell her: be ready at 8 p.m. and wear something classy... or be ready at 2 p.m. and no high heels, you'll wreck them where we're going (if it's someplace active or dirty)... By asking them if they are OK with whatever, you do appear as beta... And if she is not OK with burlesque, just tell her that you have standards when dating and that open minded is one of them... DItch her if she can't stand nudity, it means she will be not that adventurouss in bed...

True, but on the other hand, I was thinking that since the show is about 2 hours long, it won't give us much time to talk. Being the first time I am hanging out with her, I am more tempted to take her ice skating, then hot dogs, then beach.

That's cool (no pun intended...) I vote in favor of any form of dating other that the coffee shop, restaurant and anything else that everybody is doing... and yeah, venue changing is a great way to accelerate comfort, makes her feel like she's known you for a longer period of time...