met some girl at my college house 2 days ago. Her and a bunch of other girls were flirting with us guys from the house next door. then last night we invited them over to drink, and the girl who i'd been eyeing basically jumped all over me as soon as i introduced myself. we hung out (made out) for a while before i let her leave for the bar by herself. i showed up a bit later and immediately she was on me again and after about 20 minutes brought her back to my room. we were messing around for a LONG time on my bed but every time i went for the pants or anything she would kinda pull away. ended up just sleeping over.

we've only got a few days left here at school though. should i text her today and try to get her back over here to f-close? or should i wait a day and try tomorrow?

You only have a few days, shes either DTF or not, no purpose is served by acting busy.

yeah, good point. that's what i figured. i ended up texting her around 10 and was constantly texting her back and forth last night til about 12 when she told me what bar she was at. so i stopped texting her and showed up there about 30 min later. i kinda fucked things up a bit, tell me what you think. she was sitting in a corner at the bar surrounded by a group of people. i didn't want to push through and be rude and i know she saw me, so i figured i'd wait and chill with my friends til she was more to herself. she ended up leaving with the group without me noticing as i was grabbing a drink.

so i figured i blew it and she would be mad i didn't say hi, but i tried texting her a few minutes later and again she responded immediately and we texted back and forth a bunch again. she went to another bar and then got tired and went back home. i had another girl in my bed at this point so didn't care. but clearly, even if it appeared like i blew her off, it didn't bother her since she continued to text me. but now, do i try once again tonight? i don't see why not but double checking.

as a rule I never meet a girl for a rendezvous who is already attached to a group. You have to impress the whole group to raise your status and it becomes logistically sticky and precarious.

I think your plan is good, but look to meet her ALONE, if you can isolate her away from her posse, at your frat house or at the bar you will be in the best position to f-close her.

Also mind the texting, dont attempt text her into comfort, if you can get her sexting while she is drinking that would be a plan but dont go overboard.

yeah i didn't ask her beforehand whether she was with others or not.. just asked where she was and then went to meet her. i don't know her friends so i don't know whether it was her group or just a group. regardless.

i'm thinking i just tell her to come over and pregame with me wherever that might be tonight. that way she's on my turf and i can work on building and escalating before i'm in a bar scenario where there will be more obstacles.

Meeting her in a group is a challeging thing to do. Just become friend of the guys, the girls will want to know who you are and will talk to you, also because they are competitive they will try to get your attention, use that to rise your value. Dont go after her, feel comfortable, enjoy meeting the new people... she will go after you. It never failed to me!