So I hung out with a girl Monday night for like 30 mins after I isolated her from the group, we walked to the same tube station together and stopped at a pub for one more drink along the way, everything went great, kino, attraction, chemistry, no Kclose but got her number. In the conversation I bigged up this place based on what she was telling me about hobbies and interests, that I will show her, she was happy to go there with me.

Anyway I called her (just now) to set it up tomorrow, and she said she can't until next week, Thursday to be precise.

How do I keep her interested in going to this place over the week? I didn't tell her what it was but said she would love it.

When's the best time to contact her about it? There's a strong chance I'll see her on Wednesday. Should I leave it until then or mention it by text before then? How do I maintain the interest of taking her to this (in her words in the phone call) "mysterious place, that I'm curious about"?


Thanks.

My advice is to never "milk it" by bringing it into the conversation too often or ask her directly "We're still on for next Thursday, right?"... You invited her, now it's her turn to show interest... But this doesn't mean no contact until next week, just not talking about the "thing"... anything else goes, funny shit you saw on youtube, song you can't get out of your head, whatever... Keep your preence alive in her mind until there's the right time to bring the "thing" again into the convo... Good luck!

if the mood is right you could try some playful teasing. I had to wait several days between N-closing and meeting. I used those days to build some rapport texting about stuff AND to keep the sexual innuendo alive so she would not see me as a friend when we finally met

not plain sexting, just some teasing.. of course, if you feel you can be more explicit, go for it

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