Hey guys,

I havent been gaming for long at all, but am getting lots of numbers and approaching more.

I have an issue with this one girl.
she used to work in the same building i rent office space.
I saw her in a bar one night, (she recognised me) and we spoke then she gave me her number, full name & said to call sometime, (she entered her number twice, I accidently deleted it when she first entered it)

I saw her again when I had txt her, she never replied to me and apologised and told me all the days and times she was free, but i was so drunk.
I saw her again more recently, and she told me to call her the next day.
I want to call her, but now im really nervous.
I have left all contact for over a month now (cept bumping into her when shes working)
but how should i go on a cold call to her?
will she remember me?

^ she works in the bar btw, shes the supervisor.

you've definitely put yourself in a tough spot. you have a limited window of time to get a day 2 after the initial attraction.

You've got nothing to lose in calling her and working to setup a day 2.

Ok, I called this girl yesterday, twice, but no answer.
She then sent me this txt:
"Hey there. sorry i missed your call this morning! i was fast asleep what's up?"

I ignored it yesterday & called her again today,
no answer, so I sent her a txt back:


"Hey,
I was just wondering if you wanted to meet up sometime?
you said to give you a call because your useless at responding to txts haha!"

I don't know wheather this was a wise txt or not, I always lose at my txting game!
But I didn't give my name because she made no acknowledgment of who was calling, so I wanted to act as tho she would know who I am, so perhaps she thinks about it?
Idk, what's everyone's thoughts?
Leave this bird be?

you should have neg a bit more. now you look needy. just wait for her to contact you again. do nothing.