Sup guys, just come across a situation I'm pretty inexperienced with, the Facebook Game!

I know this girl through doing a society thing at my uni, think she's very cute and i've got a reasonable base of attraction with her. However, i don't have her number, just fb friends. So I've been messaging her a bit and I want to organise a "date" trouble is it's exam time and we've both got deadlines and work etc.

She sent me pretty long ass message last night which was pretty positive with me but full of how hard she was having to work etc, she ended it saying she was going to deactivate her fb for a week to concentrate on work etc. She knew from my first message that Im attracted to her, i couldnt be bothered with anything other than direct, so i don't think she's just flaking off, however i haven't actually asked her out yet.

So what should i do?
I figure i could message back saying good luck etc, let me know when youre back to being social and we'll organise something, leave the idea there but dont actually ask for it?

Or i could ask her out now and float it as something to look forward to after deadlines

Or i could just not reply for a week or so and wait until she's no longer doing work.

What do we think? Bare in mind i don't have her number, nor will i see her for a week or so around uni due to exams.

I'm weak on fb game, straight out of a long term relationship and i havent done this stuff for ages

Cheers guys!

Freeze her out dude. Wait for the week to pass and let her come to you. If shes in to you she will and if not fuck her and find another girl. Theyre a dime a dozen and a girl who hasnt given you her number sounds like work.

Cheers.
-BRAD

First, thing about FB game, try to avoid being direct unless you are directly asking her out. Women will have a tendency of thinking you have cyber courage. Only be direct if you've been backed into a corner and can't think of anything to say. For future reference. You've already blown this, so don't worry about it or try to fix it. There's nothing you can do about it.

Second, normally I would agree with Brad. That is in normal game. The thing about FB is that it is a lot like out of site out of mind. Because of this in order to keep her after you you can do one of two things. 1. when she's online make sure you post things to your profile that look fun and interesting, while she's online so it shows up on her time line or 2. Message her. Obviously the latter is simpler, but you have to do it right.

Any FB game can easily be finished with a number close. Draw her into a conversation, entertain her use your regular game plus smileys or lols or hahas depending on your style. These allow you to properly convey emotion and therefore she'll feel more connected. Draw her into the conversation. Just when you get her really chatty say that you have to get offline, but you can text. Here you can go direct, but personally I like to go with something like, "I've gotta get off line, but If a certain someone would like to divulge their 7 digit code at which on could find them to communicate vocally or through mobile messages known as texts...." For some odd reason it makes them laugh, but It might just be me. Anyway at this point she will qualify herself. If she gives it to you then you call her after exams tell her where you'll be and when and invite her. If not, fuck her.

NOTE:
Facebook game is difficult because you can't always convey emotions and you can't read body language or tone. Any confusion drop all acts and explain unless, you think it can be resolved without. Also, remember. take risks but don't make them obvious. Obvious risks look like you only have confidence because you aren't face to face. And I do have to agree in part with brad you might want to look at other chicks too. It's looking like you have oneitis

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Both of the above comments are great, nice work boys. I would sugest as well to msg her and not be direct... and then at the end ask for her number. I feel at this point if she really is somewhat attracted she will have no problem w you having her number. Dont over think this 1.... iv got mutiple numbers over FB by being cocky funny via instant chat and then saying "well i gotta run but we should continue this chat again somemtime... whats your number?" and if shes truly been enjoying the convo (ull b able to tell by her comments back obv...) she will give it.

ALSO, this is very important.

IDK how your FB looks buts girls creep guys FBS all the time... so make sure you have nice pictures of yourself... being social... and have as many other girls as well. FB is a great way to DHV!

GL
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