So I went out with this girl last night.

Background
We met about 4 months ago in class. Went out for coffee. We have a mutual acquaintance and ironically the three of us hang at a bar one evening. He says to her, "you should date Mark" (me). She responded to him saying I wasn't her type. I just overheard the discussion. So I let it slide and backed off. Why focus on a girl who isn't into me?

Now

So 4 months later we chatted on FB and I suggested we hang out. We hung out last night. We met up to see some musicians play. I joked with her that she needs to marry a local to get a Visa. Ha ha All of a sudden, she says she has been dating this guy for 3 months. After about 20 minutes of this, she refers to him as her bf. So I flip it around and tell her she should invite him to join us. She responds by saying he is tired. Why would she make plans with another guy 3 days in advance for a Friday night event if she has a bf? So I just took this as ANOTHER indicator of disinterest.


So has this happened to you? Girls using the fake bf to make it clear that "we are just friends." How do you deal with it? I felt like starting to talk about other girls I was dating but I didnt. Perhaps she was seeing another guy but I doubt he is her bf. I would talk about other girls if I wasn't interested in a particular girl so I assume she did the same.

How would you have dealt with this?

Cheers!

I guess not. Lol

You shouldn't get upset or look influenced when a girl mentions another guy. I think it's kind of a shit test but not always. Girls like talking about relationships.

I had it happened to me while gaming a girl. She mentioned her ex. And when I started having convo about it she said we shouldn't be talking about that but I insisted and said I like these type of convos.

Actually you should instead use it as your advantage. I was talking about relationships in general and then said that I have came out of a long one and then used some shock and awe and she was literally shocked and surprised. After that escalation wasn't a problem anymore and I ended up sleeping with her that same and It was her who wanted to come back to my place

I suppose if you're not looking for a snl qualify her by saying I dated a girl just like you. We had great time but she was *and you insert something you don't want her to do*. Works like a charm.

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