Hey kids,

more action this week! here's one I have for you which happened tonight! I need your help to figure out how to FC this one! A new situation I had never faced before...

A girl I met through an other female friend of mine was at a bar and invited me over. I got there, she was happy, I could kino, pull her into me and isolate her without any problems, her friends even left us alone (I love when this happens, for all the times you get cockblocked!). I proposed to bounce to an other bar close, where we sat down in a comfortable couch in the corner of the bar, less high energy. We talked, I tried to do the “hand test”, which I read in 60 Years of Challenge – one of my favorite books. It consists of holding the girl’s hand and caressing it. If you get a mutual response, bingo, otherwise you’re just waisting your time. For some reason, girls can’t lie here. You put your fingers in between hers and close your fingers to hold on to her hand and if she does the same, you just figured out she’s into you. I’ve tried this about 10 times with different girls and it worked everytime- either positively or not, but the outcome of the interaction was always in relation with the answer the test would give me. This girl did not pass the test… Later on I pulled her into me, tried to go for the kiss, but she wouldn’t kiss me and gave me her cheek. I told her “ah you’re shy that’s so cute” and went for it again, but same response. She told me that she was uncomfortable with the idea of anything happening because she was going to see me again with our mutual friend. She asked me if I was frustrated. I tried to discard her point by explaining a story of a friend who was with a girl and found out that she cheated on him and that he learned about it through mutual friends, and that I thought that was stupid because I never tell anyone what’s happening with a girl, but even then she was not convinced. I told her that her feeling was just a result of a thought that came up to her mind and that she decided to pay attention to it, whereas she could have just let it go because she’d decide that it was not a thought that she wanted to give any attention, and therefore feeling better. Even then, she agreed with this, but nothing more happened. We split off a few minutes later and left in good terms. She’s leaving for a trip to Greece for a month in 2 weeks. Damn I should have disarmed this “friend” obstacle way before. Or perhaps I overestimated her attraction to me. If she was realllly turned on, she wouldn’t give a fuck about the friend because all that she’d think about is having me inside her. Gotta work on projecting a stronger sexual vibe!