I'm 20 girls 18. Wev had one date it went well and she texted me that night sayingshe had a really good timeand wanted to do it again. we made plans for a week later, she flaked, it seemed legit and she said she still wanted to hang out. We made plans again for a week later. This time I knew she was gonna flake again cause it was a school night and she said shed have to talk to her parents. she did flake but again said she really wanted to hang out. she said she was going to let me know a good day for her.
this was yesterday and I'm thinkin il hear from her Sunday or Monday. anyways I'm thinking she may be flqlqky cause I dropped to many compliments and came across as needy.
So when she suggests a new day and I was thinking about accepting and then flaking day of.
Is it worth the risk? I think it will demo a good point but I'm worried about delaying seeing her longer because I really don't think she has an accurate representation of me from the little time we spent together

Freeze her out. There are 100's of HB's looking for young Alphas. By trying again you appear needy and demonstrate lower value.

Move on. Keep gaming.

In my opinion, when she arranges a date, don't flake. Go on the date, if only for practice. Try to shift the power - don't come across as needy or pay her too many compliments. If anything, act as though in the time that she's flaked twice, you've lost interest. Make her work for you.

I decided I won't flake, but I think I'm gonna wait 24 hours to reply to her

The best thing you could do is genuinely be uninterested (dude its been 3 weeks). Make her earn your interest and when she does, and only when she does, give her IOIs. Make sure to neg her appropriately. Basically give her what she deserves when she deserves it. Your the Alpha bro act like it.

She texted me today, its been over a month haha I guess she realized if she didn't contact me shed never hear from me again. So here's what she said

Her. Hey was that you that came into (her work) the other day!?
Me. No haha it sounds like I have a doppleganger running around town though
Her. Hahaha oops that's embarassing I Definetly was all like "Omg hey! How ARE you?" When your evil twin came in and he just stared at me funny :/
Me. Hahaha that's hilarious! I actually laughed out loud
Her. Yeahh it was awkward.. so how have you been?
Me. I have been doing great, how about yourself?
Her. Same! I just got back from Mexico so that was fun
I had to work so it took 3 hours to reply
Me. I bet! I think traveling is always an awesome experience, was it a resort?

Thats it so far. She seems interested to me, so should I point out that she never let me know a good day for her?

This conversation is so lame, and your question! "Should I try to make a date?"

YEAH! You should have made a date in the first text!!
"Hey was that you that came into (spot) the other day?"
"Yeah it was! Why didnt you say something? I was trying to ask you about our date this week"

The steps are obvious. 1.Get a date. 2. Get a kiss. 3. Get a lay.
The stuff in the middle is just having fun. So do step 1! Stop being a pussy!

Why would I show a bunch of interest after she faked not once but twice then told me she would let me know when it works and didn't contact me for over a month and then didn't even mention when she was free when she did contact me. I think I'm right not asking her out in that convo.
I do think it was a decent ioi that she texted me first and that she had a story where she was excited to see me even though it wasn't me.
I think she made the story up personally, just to have a reason to contact me and get me back on the line.

What do you guys think I should do?
1. Go to her work (a restaurant) with some friends and say hi. I think this is a good option because my best qualities are my looks and may reignite some attraction.
2. Text her in a week and ask her to hangout
3. Continue to forget about her unless she initiates contact again

When the fuck did I say should I try and make a date?

I paraphrased. You said, "should I point out that she never let me know a good day for her?"

What would be the point of saying that if not to make a date?
Yeah she definitely made up the story. So I would have made up my own story to counter it, and keep things interesting, rather than believe her bullshit story.
You wouldn't be showing that much interest. She showed interest by texting you first. You would be saying "Don't forget that I want to date you."

What you said instead, "Please forget that I want to date you! Let's be best friends and never talk about sexual stuff!"

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Fair enough I get what your saying and appreciate the posts. This girl just kinda annoys me at times haha.

So what should I do next and when in your guys opinion?

Wait til she contacts you again, bring up the date. If she isn't cooperative in setting up the date, be indifferent and end the conversation.

I like this idea but I think there is a chance it will take a month for her to contact me or she may never again. One other thing to point out is that her senior prom is coming up and if I don't get her before no doubt some high school chump will

I'm too long in the tooth to really offer opinions on something that young... but Slip's got the right idea - and he's not trying to flame you.

In the game - get a tough skin - you won't win every battle... and when you're getting ripped on - we've all been there.... Roll with it and learn from it - to better attack the next target.

Never fail - always find just one more way that doesn't work so as not to repeat it next time...

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Women are like ceramic tile.... if you do the prep work, and lay them properly the first time...you can walk all over them for years to come.

Dude the trick is to keep your texts short and no longer than a line or 2.

I've perfected my text game, but I slipped tonight and wrote a long sentence, I almost lost the girl. Luckily my attraction was extremely powerful and sexually when I met her 2 hours ago.

Not only did I diss the HB-8 trio , I got them to give me a massage and was rubbing her ass within 2-3 minutes of the meeting. While controlling the other ones with my asshole personality.

Everything has to be sexual and every word has to come out with utter confidence and point. Being slick, sharp and on point.

You sound like a pussy with those messages.

I should upload the text conversation here, but I'm just paranoid.