Here's the situation.

I'm a normal guy, I get alot of women but never ones I would intend to start a relationship with. In the past, when I've met women I wanted to get serious with, I fucked it up being too needy/pushy. Basically I get nervous as fuck and start making alot of wrong turns.

A few weeks ago I was introduced to a girl through a friend where I work, and I had a quick chat with the girl and she was really my type.

Her friend whom I'm already acquainted with, added me on facebook, told me she did so because she thought her friend (who I was introduced to) would be less shy about adding me on facebook aswell if she was already common friends. She revealed that her friend had been stalking my profile and whatnot.

So we added eachother and after a few days decided on going for a few drinks last saturday. I brought her to a nice lounge I know next to my place, had a few drinks, really nice conversation, basically went very well. I got a few great negs in, but since I was just having a great time and didn't want to be too pushy I decided that I would not be kissing/having sex with her THAT night.

Anyways the lounge closed at 3am and she asked if I was hungry and we went to grab some food. It was already pretty late at that point and I thought she would be cabbing home and since my place was really close we just walked to my place. I thought I would show her my place and she would get a cab home.

I guess I was mistaken since she stayed until NOON the next day. I thought about making a move a few times but was basically way to concerned about fucking it up. Normally with any other girl I would already be in bed but with this one I wanted to take things slowly..We just chatted, I thought her a few things, we listened to music and I shared alot of stuff with her but did I fuck up not making a move? I'm guessing that if she stayed that long she probably wanted something out of me.

Anyways when she left she said goodbye and asked if we would see each other again telling me that she was free next friday or something like that.

I know I'm probably still in the game but wondering how to proceed and maybe ''recover'' from what may appear as weakness. Do I text her first? Do I let her come back? Maybe she thinks I'm not as interested as she thought I was now that she spent the whole night at my place and nothing happened.

I saw her friend the next day and she told me she playfully told me that she was ''disapointed'' because she thought I was the kinda guy who doesn't waste time.

Does that mean she probably only wanted my d*ck? Am I a boy toy? Haha


Sorry for the long read and thank you!

You got her back to your place and you didn't close.

LEARN A LESSON HERE.

I don't see how that answer pertains to the topic I made, yes I could've closed and yes I didn't. What I wanna know is how to take it from here knowing that I didnt.

Seems simple. She asked if you were free on some day, you should contact her, set up a date, then don't forget to close.

She's still interested, just don't acknowledge the fact that you didn't close and you'll be set.

Yeah I guess.

I heard from her friend that she is coming to the bar where I work tommorow night so I'll probably have a chat with her then.

As soon as you see her - kiss close.

Bold move here negates the lack of a move earlier - and removes any doubt in her mind.

Caveman time.

Rodeo.

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