Alright this SHOULD have been a lay report, just didn't know how to handle this resistance.

Was gaming this HB8 for a couple weeks. Last weekend when we hung out she said "I am not sleeping with you." after I made a c&f joke about fucking her. Also resisted when I tried to kiss her. Wednesday night we wend out for a walk around a lake and I kissed her at her door when I dropped her off.

Fast forward to last night. We went out to a bar after work and I started building up the tension again. We got into a convo about how each of us thinks the other likes it. I made up some shit that seemed semi-relevant and shes says "pretty good...but we're not having sex." So a little while later I'm getting bored and I tell her we should leave (we drove separate). As we're walking out I say "lets chill for a bit, you can come over and check out my cat." She replies "Hahah yeaaaa cat is totally code name for your penis." I reply "hahah no, literally...my cat. If you don't like him you can leave." So she agrees and follows me back to my house.

We get to my house, go in my room and I show her some of my work, seems impressed. We then head to my living room and I ask if she wants to watch a movie. She says "How about a show I can't stay too long." I say "Oh okay so then we'll only watch 73% percent of it, don't want to keep you." We're laying on my couch with a blanket over us and I start escalating. Eventually get my knee rubbing against her pussy through her dress. She turns away and says "Let's watch the movie, this is a good part." I pull back for a minute and don't say a word. Then i dive in right where I was. This happens another 4 or 5 times before I finally get up and twist her around so shes laying longwise on the couch and I'm on top of her. I start rubbing her pussy from behind with my hand and shes loving it. She then pulls the "This is a great part you should watch it" again. I stop and say "yeah it is" not even looking at the tv. A minute later jump back in. I then pick her up off the couch, her facing me legs straddled and carry her into my room.

I throw her onto my bed. She says "It's really late I should be going." I say "okay" softly and continue kissing her. Working my way to her boobs, seems like a sensitive area because every time I tried to pull of the shirt she immediately resisted. So I start rubbing her pussy through her panties, shes going INSANE, moaning and shaking, even starts choking me in a kinky way. I then take her panties off and continue with foreplay for a while longer. All throughout she kept saying she has to go." She then says "I kinda want to feel you inside me," I say "should I get a condom?" She says no and says "I can't do this I don't know what I'm thinking." I continue on with foreplay she's soaking wet and on the verge of screaming at this point, damn near bit my lip off too. I flip her around so shes on top of me. I finally get her shirt off and grab her boobs, by now I know she likes it rough. I start smacking her ass and she tells me to do it harder, and harder, and harder. Shes grinding on my boner with her pussy, we're virtually fucking with clothes on. She see's the condom's I was trying to pull out, its was a jumbo ass 12 pack, I know wtf was I thinking leaving that around. She's then like "No, No, No I can't do this, I'm not a slut look at how many condoms you have over there. I can't do this....I mean jeeze...I just met you, we don't even know each other." I tell her that's the only size box I could get for that brand, which was the truth. Then shes tries rationalizing the situation like, "No it's not my fault, it's you invited me over to see your cat. God your smooth, I can't believe you. It's your fault, I didn't want to do this. I'm not a slut...your a seduction artist ughhhh." Not in an angry tone or anything, but in a very soft unsure tone. All the while I'm rubbing her with my knee, so I know she's liking it. I try and smooth it over, but wasn't to successful, didn't really know how to respond. She finally gets off of me and we're spooning for a bit. I ask her how it felt and she tells me it was amazing and she came like 3 times. Then she's like "I kinda want to make you come, I don't think it's right to leave you with blue balls." So I said "make me feel like I made you feel." She replies "........no I....I can't." She then gets dressed and I walk her out to her car. We're making out for a bit then she's like "Your bad...I can't believe you got me to do that." blah blah blah, she leaves the end.

Where did I fuck up...was it the condoms? I mean I thought I did a pretty awesome job at pushing through all that resistance. I wanna f-close this so hard, but I'm wondering if this is gonna turn in to buyers remorse or something. Is it still feasible to fuck her after this? By the way, I work with HB on weekends.

The condom thing is bunk, she was looking for an excuse to stop and turned it into one.

It sounds like she made a promise to herself to not sleep with you until after a set period of time. It sounds stupid but I've heard plenty of my female friends talking about they won't sleep with a guy until after "x" dates.

It's likely that she likes you and doesn't want you to think that she is easy. The easiest way around this is to ensure her that you're in it for the long run. Build more comfort by convincing her that you two have a foreseeable future together. I overheard Mystery explaining this technique by talking about pomegranates. Dig around a little bit and you should be able to find it to better grasp what I'm talking about.

It's also possible that she doesn't want her reputation to be tanked at work. Convince her that a gentlemen never discusses his private actions.

You did a great job pushing through to as far as you did. The only thing you could have done differently would have been to freeze her out. Remember that to be a good pickup artist, you have to be willing to walk away.

Just keep working on her you'll be closing the set in no time. Again, your goal now is to build comfort in your future together and assure her that you're not going to tell anyone at work (without actually saying that).

Agree with doclift. Sounds like shes interested but decided not too sleep with you too early. Vin DiCarlo classifies these girls as "Deniers." Rather than "Justifying" (the other category) their sexual lives by saying "sex is no big deal." Deniers deny their own sexuality because "I'm not a slut. I don't need sex, it comes in a committed relationship."

So she's trying to make you wait. Continuing to escalate was a great move, next time try turning the lights off, it will make the experience more physical and sensual, and she can't see your condoms.

Basically do the same thing again, but commentate the whole time "we're bad, we shouldn't be doing this." so that she can't say it first. This one seems like a sure-thing f-close, good luck.

Sounds like heavy LMR and Anti-Slut resistance... don't worry about it, try again.

Always on point Doc! Actually had a repeat last night in her car, virtually NO resistance. Just have to isolate in a good location, this deal is sealed.