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PostPosted: Sun Mar 25, 2012 5:38 pm 
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Met this HB9 out in a club, got along great with her, spent nearly half an hour chatting, and just generally having a good time. She was responding playfully the whole time, giving me good IOI's, etc. She ended up giving me her number without me asking for it, and all went well and we went our separate ways.

Gave her a text the next day, typical "hey its me from ..." and some random stuff from the night. Short and sweet, really. She doesn't respond back, and I'm fine with that, I figure fake number, I had a good time, no harm done. Then she ends up texting me 30 odd hours later, at 1am... Says she's had a lot going on, sorry for the late reply, and answered the other stuff in my message, as well as asking me a few.

I didn't respond back obviously because I didn't want to look stupid texting back at that time of night. I'm just not sure how to go about getting back to her, etc. Would something like "Yeah, I've been busy myself trying to deal with ... and ..." work? Then continue with chatting? Just seems as if shes trying to shit test me, and I'm not sure the best way around it.


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PostPosted: Sun Mar 25, 2012 6:43 pm 
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reply around 11am in the morning and respond accordingly, but make sure your text is slightly shorter and its up to her to continue the convo

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PostPosted: Sun Mar 25, 2012 6:57 pm 
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PUAs seem a bit paranoid about shit tests.. don't give shit about walking into them. a few small mistakes don't define a person.

does it matter so much that you're not the center of her universe yet and that she really might be busy and unable to constantly carry her cell phone or simply isnt fond to keep that handheld cancer device on herself 24/7?

take a chill pill and follow your instincts.. if you can't read her mind, anything else is merely speculation; even if it's PUA textbook stuff.


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PostPosted: Mon Mar 26, 2012 4:54 pm 
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Texted her back the next day around 11:30am. Same thing really, though not as long, got back to me that day. Very cheerful, upbeat, even recapped some of the night and she said she had fun, and laughed.

Just the period between texts is getting a bit frustrating. It's like once every 3 or 4 hours.


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PostPosted: Tue Mar 27, 2012 1:20 am 
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Don't stress about it! Suggest a meet up sooner rather than later though! She's either not a texter or doesn't want to look keen.

Me and my gf never texted much! In fact she texted so little that I stood her up on our first date as I presumed she wasn't interested lol! I didn't want to waste my time ect. Turned out that she just wasn't needy


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Yeah, I wouldn't read too much into this. If the texting is positive (apologising, investing with questions, etc), just continue banter and rapport building as you normally would, but don't miss the window of opportunity, in other words try to organise a day-two soon as possible. Personally I always give the benefit of the doubt, until I can find out more about the girl.

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PostPosted: Tue Mar 27, 2012 2:57 am 
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After some time she finally wants to meet up... Taking time to text back to her obviously did the trick. I'd never usually fret this much over something like this, but she really was quite gorgeous and had a great personality. I almost felt like texting back after each text immediately but I'm glad I held off on the occasions where I was actually by the phone.
Don't think I've ever been so paranoid or nervous haha...


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PostPosted: Tue Mar 27, 2012 7:01 am 
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call her, on the phone, use your voice, she can't take 4 hours to respond back to you, unless she wants to seem like a retard


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