Hey this happended last night:

I lot of the people has started at my school. So me and a friend was in the friday bar socialising and got to know the newcommers. I had the perfet opener, cause next week im suppose to be a mentor for the new students

anyways after a lot of hours at the bar and lets just say I got a couple of beers, I really thought I had it with this one girl, so I forgot all about reason and kissclosing and all that jazz and went for it. she told me she wasnt rdy for at at put a finger on my nose (God Dammit). After this it didnt took too long before she went home with a girlfriend and my friend sneeking to acompany them.

When I spoke with my friend later he told me, that she had asked for our numbers, but he havnt given her my number, I didnt really get this part, but he told me that he would sent her my number..... after like 40 mins she actually wrote me a sms.

she said: Hi Jakob

I said: who is this (played dumb)

she said: its me Sara

I said: hey Sara!

she said: (made a happy smiley)

this might be some newbie questions, normally I do some smarter play, but this time it ended like this. Shes a really beautifull girl, thats why I need some outside opinions. Even if I did some stupid things here I want to make some experiance out of it.

oh ye and by the way, im her tutor next week, so I got that card to play as well.

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You didn't build up anything before you went for the kiss close, resulting in her saying she's not ready and she put a finger on your nose. looks like she is playing you from there. you let her be in control of everything from the very start, you're putty within her hands. she wanted your number and she got it without any effort. in my opinion you're just like every other guy to her, you didn't bring anything new to the table.

You should forget about her and move on, that's just my opinion.

Ignore what Cold said, that's a classic example of ejecting before being rejected.

She said she wasnt "ready for it" which means she wants to kiss you, but the circumstances weren't right. She's put the effort into getting your number, and contacting you first, so she's already invested. Reward her investment by asking her out. She wouldn't be talking to you if she wasn't interested.

Do not ask her out just yet.

Make her jump through your hoops first. She already has the control.

First you must take control by having her jump through your hoops. Once she complies. Reward her by asking her out. And when you go for the date don't be afc about it. Make a statement not a question. Tell her the date you're available don't ask her oh of you're not busy Friday would you like to go out?

Take. Control of the situation and be alpha