Alright, things are about to get out of the comfort zone for a few of you. First off, I'm in sales and I make a living by being able to read people and dissect any of the little nuances of communication. I use it with women all the time. Here's the scenario, there's this girl I've gone out with a few times, no sex yet but plenty of fooling around. Here's the kicker, it's now my understanding that she's into BDSM. It's not important how I understand this, but it's very evident to me now and basically confirmed by her in a playful way. I've never done BDSM stuff, but I'm cool with trying it. For the record, she's the one that wants to be submissive and me to assume the power roll. How do I go about doing this? Starting it? Expectations? I feel almost like a virgin as a kid for the first time. Lol. Thanks for the help guys.

BDSM people have their own rules, morays, and conventions. I went out with a chick like this and she freaked out on me when i slapped her in the face while fucking, I do this to a lot of chicks and most like it=but she freaked the fuck out. So much for hardcore BSDM

My point it a lot of those woman are "lifestyle" types which means its less fun then you think if you dont conform to their sense of nonconformity. I wouldn't assume you could just be bedroom bully with this type of girl. At the end of the day i think its more of a pain in the ass (not literally) then it is a benefit.