Hay Guys, had two dates with this girl now and looking to set up a third. Seem to have a great time together and lots of boddy contact but she wont let me kiss her, even after escalating the hell out of it.

I want to see her again but shes been a bit lame on the texting front to, heres the convo

Girl "Hay how are you doing? I enjoyed it last night how was the club after?"

Me "yeh really good thank you, do you still want to come over and sample my cocktails" (she asked to come over when we were out because I have a mini bar in my flat)

girl "yeh sure"

me "cool im in town untill 6 tonight if you want to come over after Ill pick you up on the way"

girl "I dont think I can do today but next time defiantly"



OK question. . is this just a shy girl with logistical issue or does she not seem that keen?

Sounds like she's counting you out. ... Did you escalate properly the 1st and 2nd date? If you havn't kissed yet, that may point to not.

How does she try to prevent you from kissing her? What is your move, and her response?

only reason I say this is because that's the line I use if Im just not that into a girl, or I would have suggested a day I was free

Thanks for the reply

Well it will literally be lip to lip and she will always just move slightly out the way and evade it, which is so anoying!! lol

Iv even asked her why but she avoids the question, im just confused because she initiated the first date =(

shes Persian so she is quite conservative though . . so that adds further to the confusion