So anyways i went out clubbing and got pretty drunk and when i'v had about 8-10 in me im pretty charming and smooth.

I ended up dancing with a HB8 which lead to her being back at my place were we had sex. Turns out shes 27 and i told her im 24 but somehow i think she knew i was 21.

Anyways it was saturday night and she texts me hey its x, hows ur hangova? thanx 4 dropn me hme to which i reply Hey you! I gymd the hangover outa my system..works a charm. No probs and after my last text she doesn't reply

I had never texted her before this

Im guessing the reason she didnt text back was because i didnt reply back with a question but i was reading somewhere that you dont wanna ask questions but give open answers for them to easily continue the convo.

I dont usually try to meet up with girls again but this girl knew how to fuck and was definitely 10x better than my other one night stands

What im trying to ask is do i double text her or just wait for her to text me again?

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the reason why she didn't reply is because this was a text that needs no reply. you can contact her again in a few days.

i have no idea what she wants but i suggest you not to turn a one night stand into a relationship (being just fuck buddies is ok tho). if she is ready to have a one night stand with you than she would be ready to have a one night stand with others too - these girls make lousy GFs with the high tendecy of cheating.

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I dont really wanna relationship with her because
a. shes 27 and im 21
b. she has a daughter
c. i fucked her the first night of meeting with her

I want her to be FWB

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Woah a 8/10 in New Zealand? Bro you must have hit a jackpot or had goggles . Haha just joking mate, nice to hear about the situation, settle for a meet up which is less romantic than you would go on a date. E.g. Get her to come to your house for a movie rather than going to dinner. Be very sexual whether it be way in joking around or physically escalating. Try not to talk about the "status" because that's what the girl usual does, she'd ask to define the relationship. Just keep up being sexual with her and when the talk comes up just mention you aren't looking for anything serious.

Funny guy Thanks for the info bro.

So how do i go about this..do i text her first or wait for her to contact me again?
I dont usually ring women and intend to keep it that way because in nz calling people on cell phones costs alot and my text game is usually pretty good

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You can call her now, it shouldn't take more than a few minutes. just to set up the meeting. You can either meet at a bar (and then leave to your or her place after a few drinks) or just meet at your place for a dvd or something. make it less romantic, more sexual in the way you present yourself. If she shows up, she's DTF.

I agree with Rory1337. Do not mention your status! If she asks you about it (which I doubt she will) just say that you are undecided yet but you are definitely having a lot of fun with her and she's a cool girl to be around. But it's best not to talk about it at all.

I does help if you also talk about the way you met and fun parts of the last night you spent together. It helps her get back to the right mood and also fun. As for mentioning the sex part of last night, it should be done once you have already escalated phisically.

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Sounds like so very good ideas..i like the whole talking about what we did together when we first met

Anyways she texted me last night out of the blue saying

"Hey you, got the six60 song stuck in my head now"
i reply with "Heyy! Ha which one? I put subliminal messages in a few of get them stuck in ya head"
she replies with "Haha, i think its called forever"
i reply with "Thats my fav one..love singing along out loud to it even though my singing is shocking"
she replies with "Yeah, its a pretty cool"
i didn't reply because her texting is boring

If i don't reply and then text her something on friday you think my chances are still good plowing her?

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Go and set up a meeting with this girl. Call her. No need to make texting too fancy. Make sure you both have some drinks. Take it easy, if she shows up, she's DTF.

Here is my own post on a similar case:
1-night-stand-to-fuck-buddy-need-advice-vt100560.html
here, f-close was successful, FBW wasn't. You can do it better. You can see that the one thing I should have avoided was talking about our status. she would have dumped her LDR for me.

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Read b. and consider if it's the right thing to do :/ Do you really want to be getting involved in that?

Its just that the sex was so amazing and i really wanna turn it into a fwb thing.

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