Hey guys, so here's my situation.

A HB is a friend of my friend, added her on facebook, didn't went well, only got short replies and conversation with her, second time didn't even get response back.

However, my friend agreed to set me up with her at a pub with other few friends, so I'm gonna isolate her from others, and run my games.

My question is can I pull this off even though she doesn't seems really interested in me, and doesn't it make me look desperate, showing up at the pub.

Any response would be much appreciate. Cheers.

I don't like online game at all. I just like things personal. But I don't get what are you worrying about. Just go to the pub, and if it doesn't work...well I don't think she would be the only girl there.

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I think you can interest your girl. Try to use jokes and routines that create a interest, than wll be more persistent and show her what do you want.

Thanks for the advice, but should I mention anything about talking to her on FB, or pretend to be the first time talking to her..

I don't know what have you been talking about on facebook, but I don't think they were too interesting topics if she was so unreactive. I'm just curious about how would you like to drive it into the convo?

like... "Hey, remember when I texted you on facebook and you haven't even replied?"

or... "I really liked your answers on facebook. Short and straight up to the point"

So just no... But what I also found strange is... "pretend it's the first time"? Why would you do that? I mean pretending it's the first time is like starting from the introduction all over again. You don't need to mention the facebook stuff, but why pretend it's the first time you talk? Just act casual. Make the situation simple for yourself. You meet up, you have a date, and you'll see how it's going. There's absolutely no need to complicate this any further.

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can you pull this off?, meh, anything is possible

is it likely?, who cares, do your best if you want her, go for her, worst she can do is not be down, in that case

OHHH NOO... that would mean you talked to a girl, that is terrible

then suddenly your realize if you leave your house and live in a city you will pass by shit loads of them every where, every day

big deal

For me speak in Internet with girl is not interesting, because you dont see her emotions and reactions to your actions. It is very important because girls dont often say what they think.

there are sociologists who believe we are losing our ability to connect with people in real life because of the internet.

There's no eye contact, no body language, no real interaction online. So u can really be duped by somebody online, whereas in person, u learn more about somebody.

U can become a master of online interactions, but what happens when u meet? LOL so many people fall in love online and then are greatly disapointed when they actually meet the person.