I need help..

I met this girl off Facebook by saying we should do lunch when she posted on my wall something about me being a stranger.

Well now We've had two -okay- dates, but the last one was a week ago, we've been texting since then but her texts seem less enthusiastic, (Monday we were fighting over text who won the tickle fight, and now it feels like we're less than friends)

I saw the Movie Sticky and I guess I'll ask her to a movie date, but how do I do that? I think I just need some tips to get us in the right direction again..

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Also, I have a hottub at my house, and I was thinking it might be a good idea for a hottub/wine date, even though I've never done such. Last time I asked her she said it would be bad for her new tattoo, what should I do?

Get sexual!
You have 2 options right now.

Let the relationship fizz out.

OR

Get sexual and make sexual advances.

Its your choice :l

Call her up and tell her to be at your place at a specific time. Tell her she can't be late because you have dinner reservations. When she comes over, be in the process of preparing dinner for the two of you, and you can enjoy your night in.

With the right music being played, simple food being cooked, and some wine to alleviate any nervousness/anxiety, focus on making her laugh(comfort) and you'll be more than fine in "getting us in the the right direction again."

Don't bring up the hottub unless she does. This shows that you were listening and care about her tattoo.

Hope this helps,

Sam

PS: This move is ballsy, because your using a "white" llie to get over to your place. If you feel like your going to crack under any pressure, than do something else.

I don't know how to interpret what you went through, it's a bit vague. How did you find her exactly an what exactly was her "stranger" message? How did she became at the start and end of the dates? How much are you contacting her and what are you saying and is she replying?

I'm not sure it's at the right place for a romantic dinner yet, can't tell honestly, got my suspicions it's not though.