hello fellow PUA's, need some expert advise here.

I've been doing NLP and all sorts of stuff with this girl for quite some time now. 2 weeks ago we we're teasing and I got her to agree to book a room for us. Since it's planned I know there is enough time for her to rethink everything all over. I have good rapport with this HB, and I am positive I got her into me. But my problem was since it's a planned date her logical defense rises up everyday because of his boyfriend.

The schedule is 4 days away, and just recently she's beggin to cancel it off. She mentioned that she liked going with me ( proven) but it's the moral issues that she's worried of and can't stop thinking about. I tried to ignore it when she asked me personally. I just said, "It's alright, nothings gonna happen right".

The room we got is very expensive, and she was the one who chose it. Having said that, I think that she's really under pressure bec of the cost, she knows she like the idea too and love to enjoy the day with me, but her conscience is really stopping her from making the move.

My questions is:

1. Should I do a freeze out?
2. Should I insist? If so, how?
3. Any suggestion on the day itself? What should I do?

Experts, pls help. Thank you.

I'm not an expert, so anyone feel free to correct me or discard this advice.

This seems like a time where you want to "2 steps forward, one step back." It's not necessarily LAST minute resistance, but it's resistance. I would think there's a ton of pressure on this date (And not the good kind, like sexual tension). Expensive room, you and her, she knows she's expected to put out, whether you wanted her to think so or not. Despite her feelings for you, letting this bounce around her mind isn't a good thing, women think too much.

I would tell her to cancel it and maybe just grab a movie night at one of your places. Remember, you have to always be willing to walk away, even if it's nowhere close to your intention. If she likes you, she will chase you. It's not a freeze out, as she hasn't, for lack of a better term, gravely misbehaved. She's having doubts, and that's because of the pressure.

Thanks Insightz.

She wanted to pay for it when she talked to me. As a PUA, should I let em? Although I told her I wouldnt let her pay for it initially.

I'm also thinking to wait til d-day and try to see if it changes. Whether she would go or not. Will that be a bad idea?

I am caught between:

If i try to force her, then i'l defintely DLV
she's part of the plan, and is kinda backing-off. should I punish here like "Since we're both into this and you were the one who wants to cancel it, then go pay for it".

Really have a tough time thinking now. Sigh. It's still 4 days to go. What do other gentlemen out there would suggest? Thank you!

Well you know my stance. Four days to go, you say that like it's killing you. Know what you can do in the meantime? SARGE!

Good luck!

I read somewhere in the forum that I should make her feel comfortable. So what I'm thinking is to drop the pressure and put her mind on something else that she could be busy of by saying something like

"Don't think and worry about it. If you're not comfortable going, and since the room is already booked and cannot be cancelled, I'll just enjoy it myself". Then when the day comes I'l sneak in some SMS suggesting her to come over.

If I push harder then chances are I am going to fail. But I was thinking if maybe I could diffuse the pressure in someway, things could get better just like the day when we decided to get the room itself.