(I realized i posted this in the wrong section earlier)

i'm new to the pick up community and i started talking to a girl on fb and text. i've never met her, but we had long convos and she role played with me that we were getting married, she seemed very into me but has been not showing interest as of lately and the other night i left her hanging on fb chat. i read that long convos are bad because she will be less inclined to meet in person, and that is why i left her hanging last night, even though she knew i was on fb bc she liked a status i put up after leaving her hanging. I suggested hanging out recently and she responded to the other parts of the text but didn't confirm or deny she wanted to hang out. i tired to text her today this is what happened:

me: i just got you to look at your phone for no reason...looks like like i still have you in check Very Happy

her: Ipod (she texts off her ipod not phone)

me: whatever

she never wrote back, what do i need to to to stop her flaking and so i can finally meet up with her? any advice/help is much appreciated

what you need to do is get off the computer and go out and meet girls.

Sorry, but its the truth.

i don't have a problem with talking to girls or meeting them, but i want to expand my online game bc i always see hot chicks on fb that i want to meet.

i had an online female friend for a year almost like a gf and i did not go out at all. then i started going out, quit the computer mostly, and never looked back. take a dance class and feel how nice it is to dance close with a nice a girl. the girl who sits on her fb and has long conversations is not the fun type of girl you would want anyway.

I agree with pyuya. Get out and amongst woman. I have tried online game, and it is easy for girls to be flakey.

I recently set the same frame with a girl ( marriage)
This is a extract from my conversation:

Voltaire: sup hb, I'm picking up that coffee maker for the mansion what colour did we like again?x

Hb: haha umm I think it was purple! Don't forget the toaster to match! x

Voltaire: shit they've only got lime green, will that go with the kettle? This is a nightmare! x

Hb: hmmm I don't know you're not doing a very good job at this!!! x

Voltaire: well the sales women confused me honey, she started talking about fridges and stuff. So we have a brand new orange fridge coming, a new cooker, freezer, wok, hair dryer and a new pet orang-utan to match the fridge. Your going to have to come with me next time, otherwise we could end up with a ridiculous colour scheme. x

Hb: oh dear! By the sounds of it I'm definitely going to have to come with you! Men eh?! x

Voltaire: I know, I need looking after, and coincidently so does bobo the orang-utan.

Hb: I'm not looking after a monkey!!! Especially if he's called bobo! x

Voltaire: he's an ape!! And I named him after my grandfather. I hope you feel ashamed of yourself.

Hb: monkey/ape same thing! And no I don't feel ashamed haha. x

My point is you've got to keep the girl entertained especially if you've not actually met her before.
hope this helps some,
Voltaire