friday night 2am pick up, approach 2 set, get great vibe, number close:

sunday call while out and set up tuesday date.

tuesday meet up at 10:30 for drinks i was coming from another party.
got a nice hug opener and had one drink and good convo, kept it light, rapport building - where u from, family, job etc. i did escalate, grabbed hands - touched shoulder, and legs touching as we were close at the bar.

roll to another speak easy bar, kinda cool not easy to get into, she was into it. she asked me a ton of questions, i tried to divert but the cirque of myself is i think i talked more than her. she just kept me rolling about family, job, ex girlfriends etc. easy 60-40. but i was dominant in that i lead her around and had strong sense w bar tender and general energy.
her eye contact was strong and i realized on the 5 questions game i was the one looking away. she was holding long eye contact pretty well.

great vibe i walked her home and kiss closed, which she seemed to enjoy.

Friday - my first contact after first date, text since we were both out of town.
me: miss me yet
her: you could say that
a few more back and forth and i neg her for a lame joke - text ends

24 hours later i open with text, slow response.
same deal next day, - i give her the miss the way you smell or something like that and she says well we should do something about that, but doesnt follow up to my response. i didnt ask her out again, but very slow to no response on the text after the neg.

i am a firm believer in actions speak the loudest, so if i am getting slow text back, then i am thinking that something is up, slowly slipping.

what do u guys think? my plan was that since i texted last the best thing i could do is wait a few days or wait for a response - not sure i believe in the hard to get theory.