Here is the deal....I've been texting this girl at my college over the recent holiday break after meeting her at a bar beforehand. This weekend I met up with her twice at a bar madeout and went back to her place to sleep.

Both nights I was with her in her bed however i didnt f-close. We talked for a bit but I wasnt sure when or how to transition to start something. Any tips on how to initiate the conversation or mood without being blatantly obvious (ie do you want to hookup)

Would it be a good idea to freeze her out next weekend so it doesnt seem like I'm at her place alot, or should I continue trying to fclose now that she their is some comfort and trust built?

I say that you were there. You didn't progress work it correctly. You may have escalated fine during the night, but you were in her bed and did nothing. I'm afraid that there is a strong possibility that you will end up in a safe friend zone. If this is what has happened then you are as good as gay to her. She is probably wondering why you tried nothing. Next time you are as far as that at least try out where she stands on LMR. Just start kissing her neck. If she says nothing keep it up until she moans a bit puts up resistance. If its resistance, back off. If it is a moan, then massage her breasts some and you know what to do from there hopefully. Most girls will let out a moan of some sort with enough gentle neck work.

Hope this helps.