So I recently broke up with my LTR, we were together for a year and about 3 months. I picked her up from a local club and fell in love, I dropped pickup and she found herself making out with another guy on New Years. So to you new up and coming students don't just get a gf and quite unless you're really sure. I have to say I don't regret it because honestly falling in love was worth about a million dollars worth of inner game instruction. When you fall in love someone accepts you entirely and man even after a breakup my inner confidence is like fucking insane. But back on topic lol I've been out gaming lately and I've had two dates which have tragically ended the same way. I picked both girls up from the mall. Arranged a day two meet up, made amazing rapport with both girls and when I went for a K close I got "I have a bf..." Now that wouldn't bother me if these were like serious bf's in fact I'd be impressed. But these are guys they've been seeing for a month and from the sounds of it don't even really like. I feel I may be back in my old A2 sticking point. I think I'm struggling creating a sexual frame. I notice I get lots of rapport but it's like "lets just be friends" kind of rapport I don't feel that electricity and chemistry. Is it maybe due to a lack of DHV spikes and poor body language? I noticed last night in the car (I went for a drive with this girl and we chilled out looking over the city in my car) that I was leaning in towards her trying to escalate kino and her left leg (leg closest to me) was raised up and she was leaning away from me against the door. I took this as an IOD so I leaned way back and I noticed she switched legs and seemed to lean toward me a bit. Maybe I'm just making rookie body language mistakes like Cajun says "material is just an excuse for you to communicate you're body language". Also I seem to remember this happening before. I seem to get the girl to come around, she's enjoying my company and I almost think like "oh my work is over" yea know like it'll just be a matter of time before she's attracted too me. I think I need solid DHV spikes, one after another, in comfort building to ramp her arousal up enough to push for the close. I donno either way I want some input from you guys let me know if you can think of something to break this sticking point.

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