So basically I had no contact with girls in high school, so I'm a virgin and not even making out (before college). I just started college, became a really social person, I know so many people. Women wise, I started off being friend zoned even when I got numbers and thought i was doing great. Some situations were there, but I just didnt make a move. Didnt know what I was doing. Im VERY picky when it comes to my women so I wont even approach women that are 8's or below btw. Because of this I am VERY social. like i'll chat up any chick at the bus stop, library, etc and just leave it at that cuz i'm not interested in them and then they become interested in me. However, I'm not going to lower my standards. This just adds to me knowing everyone though. Im confident as fuck, thats not an issue anymore. I can get numbers piece of cake. If i see a girl sitting down I can just go up to her say Hi i'm ___ and get her number from there after arranging lunch or coffee. I usually do all my stuff daygame. (There are only a few places to go out at night and musics so loud it's impossible to talk everyones just super fucked up. So i dont meet chicks at all at night)

Recently have been with one girl our connection is so strong, and from here I got heavy intense make out sessions and almost F-close at my apartment. but we drifted apart. she said she doesnt date anymore, and i mean i guess i treated it as a relationship because we were so close and comftorble together (maknig out public spending every free moment together, etc) and one day when she was susposed to come over to my apartment to basically fuck (she asked to come over) i texted her "just finished up class, you at ____?" no respnse. then i see her talking with another dude at that place. shes a really nice girl so i know shes not fuckin around with him or anything, but basically i said fuck it. cut my losses. if shes wants to text me she can but im not initiating it. then im pretty sure she saw me with my friend the next day but she walked by ignoring me. possible she didnt see me but i doubt it.

But after that I definitely know what I'm doing now. But I have the problem where girls think I'm boyfriend material which I wouldn't mind a girlfriend but everyone in college doesnt want a relationship at all.
I think its because im too nice of a person at heart. Im not going to be an asshole, so Im just clear right off the bat now. I dont say i just want sex because i wouldnt mind a relationship but idk.

Also I do not have a car and the chicks I've been meeting live off campus like an hour away. I can definitely build great rapport and comfort, thats definitely not an issue. And I touch and tease them more often and have really good body language. hold eye contact with every chick and make em drop it. i know im confident , I know i'm the shit. im just enjoying my life. But because I cant meet girls at night I do direct approaches during the daytime everywhere around campus. i live off campus like 5 or 10 minutes away btw.

Basically ive gotten to a point where I just want to have sex. Do i tell the girls im a virgin? i feel like id be lyin to em if i didnt tell em. And because i do most of my stuff during the day how do i fuck em. I mean i think i build great comfort and stuff and I mean its pretty clear why I'm talking to em. But what do I do after a lunch, coffee, whatever u know? And what about girls in my class. like i ignore em and they know I'm talking to a bunch of other girls. I mean im always walking around with chicks. and like i said im confident as shit. i pass girls tests, like if she asks me for my number I'm like No. gimme your number. or if a girl asks me to do something I dont have a problem saying No i dont think so if i know theyre asking jsut for the sake of asking.

All i can think of is get em to come to my place when its dark outside. then id make a move. But i find it hard to transition to that. Even at that I dont have that much experience only 1 girl but i feel confident I can get makeout or at least a kiss during the daytime. Any advice and help would be appreciated.

Should I take it slow with one girl? like the other girl i was close with before took about a month but then it was wasted time. well not wasted because I learned alot. (I'm constantly learning btw) only been doing this for a semester and a half btw but i wanna move faster. I wanna be fucking a LOT. i know i can its just gonna take time. like i can legitimitaly picture myself hooking up with girls all the time in a little bit.


so that wraps it up. any comments, advice, or generalhep would be greatly appreciated

the whole seeing you as bf material etc. girls would ask you to be their boyfriend if that was the case, the whole your nice and blah blah, but they go on dates with you is a sign they find you attractive but are frustrated because the dates don't lead to them getting laid (and girls like getting laid)

telling girls your a virgin or not is up to you, if it makes you more comfortable to let them know then sure, but I don't really think it is much of an issue either way, would it bother you to sleep with a girl you found attractive if she was a virgin?, same sort of deal the other way around, some girls might find it more attractive, some might find it less, most probably don't care, if anything alot of girls will probably make it easier on you

as for ''what to do''

get a girl to your house, you can build rapport and a connection and all that, that is great man, but you said it yourself you just want to have sex, so time to man it up and have some sex, talking doesn't get you laid, escalating towards sex does (talking can be a part of this, but realisitically it is the physical that will turn her on the most IMO)

if you can get makeouts, great, get a girl alone at your house, and make out with her, then take off your shirt while you are making out, if she asks what you are doing say getting comfortable, keep making out, take your time, take off her shirt, take off your pants, then take off her pants, if she is not willing to take off her clothes, just keep taking off your clothes, start feeling her up as you make out, keep brushing up against her vagina as you shift to feel her up, get her nice and worked up, if you have a boner, put her hand on your dick, try to get some finger banging going on (cut and trim your nails brah) then when she is really wet, condom on, penis in, then penis out, then penis in, repeat until you are done

GOOD LUCK