I seem to have an issue of trying to get to hang out with girls I meet, but I'm afraid I come off as needy simply because I'm less patient than most.

Do you act like you're busy and then act like you're doing the girl a favor by hanging out with them?

What if you say "let's get coffee Saturday!" and the girl says she's busy, do you respond with "so when are you free?" or do you you say "I'm busy for the rest of the week past Saturday" ?

Just asking for tips on how to make the girl feel like she's lucking out that you found time to hangout with her.

some thoughts

-don't "act" like you're busy... be busy. Woman are attracted to men with an active life style. Guys who have passions and goals and don't over think... they go and accomplish them. Do this for yourself not for them.

-In the way you might phrase it to this girl try this..." Friday I am going to this new sushi spot with a couple friends.. you can join me there or Sunday I am going shopping for t-shirts and you could tag along." You can give an option without sounding needy or cocky. If she declines both perhaps you made a mistake in the initial phases and are better off finding a flock of new women to attract.

Also, if shes legitimately busy during both times perhaps you could try chatting for a bit then ending the call without plans and follow up a couple days later with a new scenario.

-On the impatience, it is a limiting belief that you are "less patient than most" you may absolutely acquire patience. It is a choice. Try reading an NLP book or try some self-hypnosis exercises. They could help you achieve relaxation during those impatient times.

Cheers!

Trajan
datedocspodcast . com

I say "Ok, maybe next time" if she doesn't offer a different option. Silence works too.

Tranjan has good advice again here 4 u.

being busy is a good thing but incase u arnt (sometimes im not... it happens lol) appear like you are. Like he said girls are attracted to go getters... not couch potatos.

his examples are good but my advice is give her something where its on your time. Always be on your time and not on hers. Say "ok im doing this... u can join if u want" or "im going here w friends... what r u doing?" and see what she says..

Also if she flakes dont get MAD and blow up on her (many guys do this an blow all shots w the girl). Sometimes she is just busy and its bad timing... shit happens... it doesnt mean shes not interested... just means shes busy... there is always another day.

Gl,
Duke