Hi guys!

I had a day two with a cute girl before Christmas. It went really well, in as much as we hung out, had a few drinks, watched a film & just generally had a great time together! Really chilled out, lots of laughs etc.

However, at the end I did a kissing "gambit":

"So, how good a kisser are you on a scale of 1-10?"

She kind of chuckled, but hinted at LJBF (at least for the time being).

We exchanged a couple of texts a few days after, but then no texting during the holidays, as we were in different countries.

So, IF I manage to set up a day 3 with her, what can I do to try to increase my chances of AT LEAST kiss closing her? I know about all the negging, teasing, kino type stuff etc, so any other ideas?

I THINK she obviously feels comfortable around me, but I DON'T want to be LJBF material! Do you think there's a chance that now she's been over to my place once (and had fun), then it might just be a case of her needing a day 3 to get even more comfortable so I can push things on??

Thanks fellas!

A few thoughts to throw your way.

-Are you resonating sexual energy when you're with her. What I mean by this is that she should have no doubt that you view her in a sexual way from the time you get her number and forward from there.

-You have to force some IOI's out of her so you know 100% where you stand. It sounds like she likes the attention she gets from you, but doesn't see you in the right frame. Especially since you haven't kissed after 2 "dates." Try to amplify attraction with some push/pull. "Wow, I'm not a piece of meat." "Yes I'll come meet for drinks, but that doesn't mean I'll put out." She has to be put on her toes a bit... You could use negs as you said that's something you're comfortable with... but more than that be playful with your kino.. Lead her through an adventure of some kind. This way you will at least have a definite answer so you can move in or move on.

-Also, generate some more options to explore... and don't get caught up on this one girl.

Cheers!

Trajan

Hi,

Some good advice there. Thanks very much!

Happy gaming!

Bang on.

Tranjan hit it on the head (no pun intended..lol). right now if she sees u as just a friend... thats not good. but the good news is that doesnt mean u cant change her mind

to do this FRAME her sexually and be more playful/flirty/kino her. See how she reacts... push pull as tran said to build attraction and THEN ask her how good of a kisser she is.... and if she hesitates this is what u say

"Really? I think we should find out" - Go in for this kiss no hesitations.

The girl will go W it. Iv gone in for many kiss closes and have yet to be rejected, but i have only gone in for them when the time was right (AKA she is giving IOIS and understands im after her pussy).

ull get there, u just have to be bold and go for it.

GL,
Duke

Thanks for all your help & advice guys! I'll give it my best shot!