Rekindling an old flame/friend zone - HELP NEEDED...



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PostPosted: Tue May 29, 2012 2:43 pm 
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Hey guys

Just joined this community and what i've read so far, it's pretty good :)

So I was hoping to pick your brains on my situation:

Up until very recently, me and this HB9 have been good friends - she split up with her bf about 3 months ago. Straight after this she was really flirty with me and definitely wanted me, constantly giving me IOIs and shit.

Problem was, a) i didnt want a shity rebound relationship b) At the time I was really into another girl and was going for her.

Now (about 2 months later) I have moved on from my previous girl and really like my hot friend.

I have been texting her fairly recently and went to a gig with her and some mutual mates where we danced together and had really good time.

It looks like it could still be on as we get on really well and she smiles at me a lot. Trouble is, she seems not as flirty texting, but quite flirtatious in real life.

Basically I need help making the transition from the friend zone which I'm in to getting this HB9 please guys! I need to get her thinking sexually about me again, like she was before!

About me: Without wanting to sound cocky, I would say I have alright confidence, lucky enough to be have multiple talents (sport, art +music) and have attracted various girls in my past but I am all to aware that I am still learning the game, being a late developer because of my other talents, so am pretty much a novice when it comes to girls.

This is where I need your help and tips please dudes.

Cheers bros :)

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PostPosted: Tue May 29, 2012 4:22 pm 
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Be more physical, sexual jokes with solid eye contact, false disqualifiers, be interesting. Invite her to hang out with you more often and pull some C&F and push pull while you're with her. Game on as usual man. Friendzone doesn't mean anything, it's not that hard to get out of if you know what you're doing.


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PostPosted: Thu Jun 07, 2012 7:26 pm 
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Yeah I'd be interested to see what you do and if it works please, been in that situation before.

What I was thinking I would do is a freeze out, get her thinking why you don't text her, then arrange to meet; come out with solid DHV's and just go for it, if you're such good friends then it won't mess things up anyway!

But keep us posted.

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PostPosted: Sun Jun 10, 2012 11:44 am 
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Yeah sure thing man, will do.

SPAM, I'm doing most the things sparroww has suggested but she's been away so haven't really seen her lots. About the freeze out, she's never been massively into texting so it's not easy to do that as it's mostly others starting conversations with her (boys and girls).

Currently I'm trying to increase the sexual tension and buiild the attraction levels to their previous highs, with some success. Am gonna go for a meet soon so we'll see then.

I will do like a 'report' kinda thing if you think that would be good after saying what worked well and what didn't?

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Yeah a report would be appreciated. Good luck.

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PostPosted: Thu Jul 05, 2012 6:44 pm 
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Right sorry for the delay in getting back to report, I've been away as you can see!

Basically I continued to keep in contact with her as much as possible without being needy: texting like once or twice a week, saw her at school and deliberately went over talked to her, strong eye contact, flirtacious teasing, talked about past positive experiences we had shared*

She seemed to respond well to this with the usual IOIs etc.

However what really fcuked me over was what I call a "dry period": her going away for like a week, then when she got back I was away for a couple of weeks, then we had an exam period of a few weeks where everyone is mostly 'head down and work, socialise post exams'. This period of 5 weeks or so acted as a proverbial cockblock.

During this time I found it virtually impossible to keep up contact and therefore attraction. There was a party where she was quite positive, stating a song always reminded her of me, taking 10% of her night's photos with me...

...but this was an anomalous night out of the "dry period".

When I got back to college I barely saw her, and if I did, not to speak to; things were not like they were before. The attraction had kinda dried up, which was annoying as I had been in what I perceived to be a promising position. Instead I had gone from regular contact to virtually none (but I thought oh well move as it's out of your control)

During this "dry period" I sent her a text on SexAddict's advice describing a 'dream' I had had with the two of us, so seemingly real that I HAD to tell her: vividly describing how the song reminding her of me came on, then she pressed her body against mine, dancing seductively then kissed me passionately.

Her response I would say was pretty warm, not totally wet by it but it certainly piqued her interest.

THEN, just recently she popped up out of the blue and was like "hey where've you been, I haven't seen you in ages! How are you?" Interest is still there but from what I gather from her friends she has an unofficial bf now which is a bummer.

All it means is just that it's time for me to move on for now. Game her later as she's clearly still targetable.


LESSONS/LEARN FROM MY EXPERIENCES:

May seem obvious but ensure that you maintain contact with her otherwise the attraction just dies.

Reminding her of positive times spent together will get her giving you some emotional attachment which is v.v. good for you and thinking about you.
(*More on this - I wanna do another post as I feel it deserves its own)

It helps to just surround youself with girls when targeting the girl for
a) builiding comfort with them
b) confidence around them
c) other girls will see and see you in a more sexual way/attractive - I found I attracted 4 other girls just by doing this whilst going for my HB9
d) your value goes up in the target's eyes

Note: don't be overly flirtacious with the non-target girls otherwise your HB may get jealous (which will likely backfire for you although not always)


If you wanna try and gauge her interest, use SexAddict's tip of a 'dream text' and be bold with it. Make sure it's descriptive and vivid so she can visualise and fantasise. It doesnt really go wrong. If shes not into you then or gets slightly distrubed you just say "hey it was a subconscient dream, not real!"



Anyway that's it, unfortunately not a succesful close but I see it as a learning curve and all good experience. Fate determines what happens for good reason. And who know's what the future holds.



Hope that helps someone - give me a shout/reputation if it does please! :D

Any questions, fire away



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