Started talking to some girl in college who I sorta like. Was going to ask her out today but didn't see her.

What should I say in a message on FB to her?

I'm thinking something like "Hey Going to town tomorrow if you fancy it"

This isn't too formal but also might be a bit risky because i'm not really close with her.

That's what i'm thinking anyway, if anybody has any advice as to what you would say let me know.

P.S If I send it and I don't get a reply. What should I say when I next see her to prevent a potentially awkward situation?

completely ignore the fact that you sent that message and run game in person.

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"Don't put the pussy on a pedestal"

She had a pretty long reply which shows me she's intrested. some random stuff. she said she was busy but told me when she was free, but she asked why?

I don't know if I should simply say "Cool. We'll meet up _" or what else to say? Text game ain't my best.

If she mentioned her availability, that's good. Just take her some where fun.

The problem is you are not close yet, so maybe date isn't the best idea. Do something a little more as a group. Like let her know of a party, or maybe tell her that you will be at some club with some friends and that she should meet you.

Once you get kinda comfortable then you can ask her out. You don't even have a number yet right??

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"Don't put the pussy on a pedestal"

Sorry to write this here but seriously can we just ban Facebook 'game' threads?

I've been trying to learn and have been opening sets for the past 5 months now and I have learned a lot... I try to read this forum to increase my skill set and help others who are new and getting out there.

The last thing I want to read about when we're talking about closing a girl is some nonsense about a Facebook date.


To your actual question: If she doesn't bring it up, ignore it and act like it didn't happen. You're too busy and hang out with too many fun and exciting people to care about that.

Next time you call her, she'll be forced to respond. And in the phone call situation, any "I'll let you know," or "maybe" is usually a 'no.' If she is legitimately busy, she'll leave the statement opened ended.

Also - I wouldn't ask her out on a date, tell her you're going out with a friend or friends and she can tag along.

Don't ask her "do you want to do blahblah.."

Tell her you're doing something and tell her she can come.

Exactly what I already did pal she gave me her number and we're sorting something out. cheers for help boys