I want stuff creative. Not the old dinner n' movie crap. Begin filling me with all of your wonderful ideas....

A date is to show her what you are about. If you like to eat and watch movies, that's what you do with her. Take her to do something you'll enjoy and she'll more often than not enjoy the same.

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It all depends. My favorite "dates" aren't dates at all. The best things are something that interests you that you're already doing and then she just "tags along." That demonstrates so many good things it's unbelievable. I'll let you think about it for yourself.

For example, I am going on a 20 mile bike ride, but I meet some girl. "Hey I'm going on a bike ride by the river tomorrow, would you like to join?" If she isn't the athletic type and still wants to go, just tone it down for her, or maybe she's awesome and LOVES long-distance bike rides.

"I'm going to stop by Wal-mart. I need a gift for my niece, but I have NO IDEA what to get her. Would you want to come with and help me out?"

"I'm going to my buddy's house party tonight and they've got live music, would you like to come with?"

It's pretty easy to just live an exciting lifestyle and bring her along for the ride. It doesn't have to be partying, extreme or anything high-octane, but you have to ENJOY whatever it is you're doing. That's important. Whether or not she's interested is only sort of her problem. LEAD the interaction.

Of course, if you don't know much about the girl (a.k.a. blind dates, etc.) you might want to just do something simple that both of you can easily escape if you aren't feeling it. For example, coffee!

Most towns have a coffee shop somewhere. Even if not, you can stop at a gas station and go find a public place to chill. There's always libraries, scenic outlooks, the top of a skyscraper, WHATEVER. Just keep everything open-ended. A plan for the night defines an outcome before you have a chance.

There's my input on "first dates" lol. Hope you enjoyed it.

1) Take her ice skating (if ur good at it) ... u can tease her about being goofy on the ice + they'll be loads of kino!

2) Funky cocktail bar - Pref sit next to her at the bar or on a couch. Be wary of sitting at a table as it limits the amount of Kino and u end falling too far into the comfort zone, damn Table!

3) Mini Golf or theme park - Always provides a fun vibe!

5) Beach (On a sunny day obv) - This one is my favourite, beach bats, sun cream 'rub me in', can propose to get ice cream afterwards, great success!

I completely agree with AznPersuasion in also suggesting things she can just tag along because if she shuts you down, it's not like she ruined ur day. You had already planned the activity irrespective of her decision ... well that's what she thinks anyway, you could have been just playing computer games the whole day for all we care.

But anything that's fun really, i'd say focus more on the event itself rather than making her the event.