Hey all. I'm interested in your opinions.

Is it time I pressure my stripper, or should I remain distant?

((Backstory: We met at her club; went on a good date a week later; I lost her number and didn't hear from her for a month; I stopped by her club and got her number again, and came back the same night and spent a shhhit-ton of money (but we also kissed for the first time, and I tasted all her goodies, and she told me she hated me because she liked me so much); I told her I'm never going back because she's just after my money; she cried and refused she's after my money; we went on an awesome date; we planned another date, but she cancelled, because it was the night before she left for a summer in France, and she said seeing me before three months away would be too hard; I said "okay".))

She's been back three weeks and we've texted a few times, but not seen each other. She's also recently changed her facebook picture to one with a (most likely) boyfriend.

I'm not gonna pollute you with my arguments for and against pressuring. I'll just tell you I like her, a lot, and she may like me more than her man. And if I pressure, I'm thinking of a text like this:

"Listen, this is taking too long. If you want to see me, it should happen soon."

So. Pressure, or wait?

I used to work in a strip club, sounds like she milking you for your money. You can do whatever you like just don't spend any more money on a stripper.

I like the text, go with it.