Hey guys, just wondering what to do..
Okey, listen up.. I met this girl who works at the store inside the store i work in. We usually don't work at the same time, though the times we do, we talk a lot and smile a lot to eachother.
So one day i decided. Man yourself up! So i went into conversation with her. Then it just popped out of me: "Hey, you know, my colleague said to me that the two of us, you and me, would never get along. that we would never fit. So i kinda accepted that challenge, so i was wondering if you would like to go out with me?" yeah. I know that's kinda weird line..
BUT HEY! She said yes and gave me her number.
Later we found out that we're going out THIS Friday.
So i'm just wondering, what should i do before this friday ? should i text or call her? i feel like that's too needy. so i kinda wanna hold it out until maybe thursday to text/call her. And i don't really have any plans for the date. i know i should be spontaneous, but i feel i should have a plan in my mind also. So a little help for what i could do ?

First of all, I don't leave a lot to chance. Maybe it's just me but I don't want to be the guy going..."Um I don't know what do you want to do." Thats definitely not being a leader. I like picking places to go or hang out that I have bounce locations I can go to nearby. I go to dinner a lot near this coffee shop, bar, and park. We can do a variety of things afterwards so I can keep the date going.

As for waiting to talk to her. I said this on another post but it bares repeating. When you first meet and you get her # her buying temperature if you will is high. You want to text/talk in between to keep those emotions flowing for you. Otherwise she can loose interest. Granted don't be needy texting her every 5 minutes but keep the conversation and her interest level going. It's easy to let things fizzle by not talking to her. Don't fall in that trap by trying not to be needy....

You asked her out, she accepted. The hardest part is over. She said Yes when she could have said No. She obviously is attracted to you, that is an automatic. Talk to her!

Thing is, watch what you say (type) when you text her. Don't seem over eager, or to 'lolololololy' if you know what I mean.

There was a thread on here about not putting question marks at the end of questions. Didn't really understand it until I started doing it, but it made a lot of sense. For example - "What are you doing tonight" as opposed to "What are you doing tonight?" It's weird, but in a subtle way, it builds value.