Hey so on day 2 with this HB8 (via online dating) we saw a movie (we were both going to be in the same area) and ended up going back to my car and hooking up there. She ended up giving me a nice BJ. I'm not looking for anything serious so I didn't text her too much after. She lives an hour away.

So I chatted with her on gchat two days after and we laughed over some inside jokes from the car. At one point she said "ur are really good with your fingers." With other IOIs.


Then on Wed I screwed up big time via text:

Me: X what are u doing after ur night class tomorrow? 12:08 PM
Her: I'll be home around eight. Did you have something in mind? 7:09 PM
Me: yea.. my day starts late on thurs so i was gonna fire up a movie and hang out... you should join me 7:20 PM
Her: It's a school night so I can't. Also...halfway point..lol 8:09 PM
Me: lame! halfway points don't have a comfy couch and fridge of cold beer... but I don't want to cause too much trouble with ur school work... :p 8:22 PM

Her: Sry.. 8:23 PM
Me: No worries


Okay. So this girl is pretty chill and really cute. I've sent two-three decent texts (spaced out by about 1.5 days but no responses) and just called her today evening (no answer). I don't wanna keep contacting her if she has no interest... but her last gchat with me, and our hook up, tell me she was very down...

I'm prob gonna just wait a bit and text her some light stuff or call her in a week or so. How would you recover?

I also sent:

Me: Out of all the (first name) (last name) I know... I think you’re my favorite.

Late at night for one of the texts a day after she didn't respond to the first, which was probably really creepy.

lay of the texts, for like a day or two, if she still doesn't respond call her and set up a day 2. Then, if she's still not talking to u just next her, theres more fish in the sea

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ehhh i'd say 2 days isn't enough man, i'd say wait a week, you have shown far more interest than she has in you. What's with the movies? Cook her dinner or change it up a bit.

Also you hooked up with her, then you invited her to your place again... seems very douchy like your just trying to fuck... she implied that she wants to spend time with you without pressure of sex, when she said half way point.... I would wait a week and if she does hit you up before that time is over, ask her out on a REAL date not a movie take her somewhere like a park or beach or something not expensive so you can just talk. If she hasn't hit you up, ask her to hang out with you at a halfway point.

thanks for those replies!