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I was DJing at this small club. After I finished djing girl #1, who came to the club just to see me, was all over me and definitely up for it. We danced and then stopped and took a break. I had met this girl previously and we stayed in contact via text message

I eventually got to talking with girl #2 who I never met before---she was definitley up for it as well. We kept touching hands, danced a little, she was touching my waist, etc. I could have taken it further but I held back because I was kind of with girl #1. So I got the phone number of girl #2

2 days later I sent a text to Girl #2: " so i was djjing at and met this crazy colombian girl who was tearing up the danceffloor! Wondering how the rest of her weekend was? ~~ superstar dj "

I saw this type of text somewhere online and is totally different from what I would usually send: "hi nice to meet you the other day, how was your weekend?"

Later that day she accepted my facebook request although still has not responded to my text message.----guys this is killing me, i really want to send more texts but i don't know what to say to re-engage her. I'm so frusterated since i am not the type that uaually has girls that are obviously up for it in the middle of a club. I am always very shy and come across as very "nice" and "sweet"..

Please please help---what should my next text message be and when?? Thank you guys so much for your help!

Just text her again in a few days, she was just probably busy. And you don't need a perfect line to get a reply

thanks for the reply....i just get very frusterated to text something completely different than usual (because my usual usually doesn't work) and to get zero response. and to have two totally different reactions: totally up for it in the club/zero text response.

Any ideas on what my text should be? thanks!

big news, lol! this girl just messaged me-- 2 days after i sent her the the first text. she said:

"hello X, thanks for the sweet compliment I had a fun night! the rest of my weekend was good, how bout you?"

ahh-- what do i say now guys...and when?! i have another gig coming up to so i can invite her as well, fyi.


thank you for the help, it is much appreciated!

The first thing I would recommend is that you relax! It's just a human-being texting you, not a big deal. You don't get all nervous and excited when one of your friends texts you, do you? Lose this mindset of "omg, a really hot girl is texting me!" She is just a person; a person that YOU should be qualifying, not the other way around.

It's just someone asking how your weekend was. Chill.

Second, I suggest you pick up a book on text game, so you can develop some know-how on the subject. If you have to post here to know what to reply every time, then you're not going to get anywhere.

Do a google search for either "The Txt Book," "B4 U TXT HER," or "The Ultimate Guide to Text and Phone Game."

And work on your inner game, otherwise it's not going to matter what you text her, because you'll screw it up later anyway.

do u have the hotfile, fileserver or anyother download link for the txt game? Or can u mail me? I didnt read that yet nd dnt wana buy

I don't have a direct link to it, but I'm sure you can find it if you search for it.

i did but couldn't find 'the text game ebook'

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bro it's b4 you text her and i want a link for, "the text game ebook". Thanks

There is no "the text game ebook," which is probably why you're not finding it.

These are the names of the books:
"The Txt Book"
"B4 U TXT HER"
"The Ultimate Guide to Text and Phone Game."

there is buddy. Google it, u get purchase link

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