I always kinda liked this chick, but after high school was done I never kept contact with her. A year later I finally had the balls to add her on fb and of course start a conversation with her. Sooooo I diiiiiiiiiiid.....and blah blah blah I gambled by getting into a more sexual topic and it worked perfectly and she didnt think I was pervert. we talked and I asked her if she wanted to go to this independent theater to watch a movie with me, she said yes and heres how it weent.

So we meet up yesterday and being the funny motherfucker I am she laughed at all my jokes which I KNOW its a good sign. Then we go see this really fucked up movie and it had looots of sex scenes and stuff, which I thought was perfect, and during scary parts she sometimes grabbed my arm or something meh. Anyways, after the movie was done we go eat dinner, nothing special (we were both hungry u see) and then we go to a park (it was dark) and I tell her how cuute she would look like with my scarf on LOL (i know this is lame but it becomes important later on) and we just sit there, I put my arm around her and sort of cuddled. We were sitting there talking and stuff for like an hour right, and then then she starts telling me about her getting booty called all the time, and having unprotected sex and how thrilling it is when u go get tested, and basically all this shit that made me go I wanted to move in for the kiss, but after those stories I just felt like shes probably not looking for a bf or anything? and then this dude that worked somewhere around the area starts texting her, and my gut told me she was into him. So then shes like "ohhh my friend is on his break he wants me to go see him" so we go right cuz im cool like that. And before we get there she takes the scarf off....and we meet the dude and hes like a total alpha male, confident, pot head, tall, ripped, hockey player that totally lost his virginity when he was 13. And he hugs her like if they were dating for a while now, and shes kinda into it too. And I was just like ¨oaaaaaarhhhhh my hearttt forever alonee¨ and then hes like ¨call me in an hour so we can smoke weed later¨ and im like ¨bitch, u better say no¨ and thankfully she said she had to go home and stuff. And then after that she had to go home cuz she worked tomorrow morning, and I went out with a few friends later on and got drunk.

So wtf, was she trying to test me or some shit to see if I was cool with all that stuff? What should my second date be like? I am kinda confused

doesnt matter anymore, she isnt into me.