hey guys i would love to get your opinion on how many days you should give a girl between you asking her out on a date and the actual date.

let me make this clearer for example you've gotten pretty far with a girl everything going perfect and you phone your girl to set up a date do you set up the date for the next day or the day after or for 3 days time?

my friend used to say and i agree only ask a girl out on a date the day before you intend to go out with her for example call her Tuesday afternoon to set the date up for Wednesday night.

im asking this because say you tell a girl "hey im going to the mall tomorrow do you wanna come?" and she says "no im busy" and she really is, you dont wanna keep saying well actually the next days fine or the day after that because then it becomes obvious that your just wanting to set the date completely on her time.

You're overthinking this. Ask her what her schedule is like for the next few days, and if you're free one of those days, set up a date for that day. If you're not free any of those days, than set up a date for a little more down the line...


ANd fuck dates at the mall..Are you over 21? I personally prefer dates at bars. like, going to 3 or 4 bars and getting one or 2 drinks at each bar. You can make it sound cooler than it really is by saying "we're going on a "mini pub-crawl." Or just saying "lets get a drink at xyz bar." And then you bounce her to a few more bars.

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